{REPLAY} How to Influence - Not Control - Behaviors

The Baffling Behavior Show {Parenting after Trauma}

Understanding the difference between having influence over behavior vs. control can help you get clear on what to focus on.

One of the trickier parts of the work I do is talking so much with parents about attachment, their role in co-regulation, and felt-safety, without snagging into parent’s shame about every parent's deepest worry- that their child’s baffling behaviors are all their fault.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• What it means to influence, not control
• What your real responsibility is in influencing behavior
• Responsibility does not equal blame
• How to acknowledge influence without shame

Read a summary or the full transcript at:
robyngobbel.com/influencebehaviors

Over on my website you can find:

Masterclass and eBook on What Behavior Really Is (FREE)
eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)
Ongoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The Club
Year Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: Being With

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Reframing Resistance: Supporting Parents & Caregivers through the lens of Relational Neuroscience
3-hour virtual workshop for professionals
June 25, 10-1pm eastern
Everyone receives the recording
https://RobynGobbel.com/ReframingResistance

I'll be keynoting the Families Rising (formerly NACAC!) VIRTUAL conference this summer!
All the details are here: RobynGobbel.com/FamiliesRising

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Want to pick Robyn's brain, hang out with her in Zoom meetings and a forum you can access in an app? Come join us in The Club!
Are you a professional who wants to support families of kids with big, baffling behaviors? Then Being With is for you!
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