On the loving of face-爱面子与有面子


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On the loving of face Face, in other words vanity, is what one imagines others think of oneself. Often times, it is a pair of heavy shackles tying us down. Those who worry about saving face are constantly tense, minding every single detail, and wanting to please others with all efforts. However, it is easy to lose oneself when chasing after vanity. We should accept our imperfections and be open to opinions. People are often overly self-protective, unable to take any criticism and fearing to be looked down upon, which results in excessive caring about face, limiting oneself from progressing. Those who can accept criticism well can benefit from it and improve quickly, while those that worry about face saving, will only suffer in vain. One’s face is built on hard work in becoming a better person, not simply on the opinions of others. Have principles, be responsible and respect oneself, then no one can, in anyway, undermine your dignity. Worrying about saving face does not help you bui...

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