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112. Rules vs. Boundaries vs. Expectations When Parenting A Struggling Teen With Trevor Allen
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Balancing the need for rules with the desire for connection can be incredibly challenging when parenting teens. In this episode, therapist Trevor Allen and I dive into the complex dynamics of rules versus boundaries versus expectations and how to navigate them in a way that promotes healthy relationships.
We discuss the confusion that can arise when trying to balance control and support, particularly when parenting a struggling teen. It’s not just about setting strict rules but more about understanding how to teach our kids how to treat us through our own actions and the boundaries we set. We want to influence without trying to control, allowing for growth while maintaining a healthy home environment.
One key takeaway from our conversation is that zero-tolerance policies can set kids up for failure, particularly when dealing with issues like addiction. So let’s explore other options in today’s episode.
“If I lived with anybody and ALL they could see are the things that are problematic that I’m doing, I would have a really hard time being around that person. I think that’s a relationship destroyer” - Trevor Allen
If you’re wondering how to create a supportive yet structured environment for your child without taking their choices personally, this episode is for you.
In this episode on rules vs. boundaries vs. expectations, we discuss:
- The differences between rules, boundaries, and expectations in parenting;
- How to influence your struggling teen without controlling them;
- Managing yourself and maintaining a healthy home environment;
- Supporting your teen despite poor decisions and bad behavior;
- The importance of focusing on what you do, not just what you say;
- Why controlling the situation by controlling your teen doesn’t work;
- Being consistent with rules vs. being flexible to meet your teen’s needs;
- The impact of only seeing the negative and how to shift focus to positive progress;
- Why nuance and flexibility in rules can improve family dynamics.
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