Nathan McGurl, Founder of The Study Buddy

Lockdown Dads

As a newly married 23 year old, apprehensively mulling over his thoughts about impending fatherhood while driving the A39 to and from Bristol, Nathan McGurl, founder of The Study Buddy did what we now take for granted - he started blogging.

The My First Kid website has sadly gone the way of our My Space profiles, but the story Nathan tells of dads sidelined from parenting will still resonate to many, even if supermarket parenting clubs no longer limit you to identifying as “Ms, Mrs or Miss”

We blend discussion about bad broadband, good haircuts and expensive contact lenses with a look at lazy and damaging gender stereotyping promoted by the UK government.

Nathan explains how having exhausting all the classic parenting manipulation techniques with his son, he created a system of GCSE revision planning that didn’t rely on learning by osmosis and became The Study Buddy.

Content

01:10 Nathan is a gin and tonic away from being “magenta.”

02:45 James loses the world’s most expensive contact lens.

04:10 Ian on bad broadband, good haircuts and lockdown birthdays

05:50 New marriage, new dad and new millennium - there was a lot going on.

06:50 On the road to Street and myfirstkid.co.uk was born, capturing all of these things flying through my head…

08:20 I started to become more aware of “parenthood” because I don't think “fatherhood” was much of a thing then.

10:00 Parenthood was all about the mums. The Safeway club just assumed it's Mrs. Nathan McGurl. I mean, you could be Ms. or Miss or Mrs, but you couldn't be Mr.

12:20 We talk government and gender stereotyping

15:40 Emails from Mums even more than Dads

18:30 The path to creating The Study Buddy

19:30 Using every trick in the book for motivation - “how about I give you a fiver?”

21:00 Then it came to Easter just before his exams,

22:00 It wasn't emotional anymore because it wasn't me telling him what I thought he should do.

22:47 This is how Study Buddy works

26:30 You don't need to spend money, but for those parents who actually just don't have the time or the inclination…

27:40 It was built for the procrastinating boy, but this kind of approach helps with, those who are really anxious.

30:00 The power of the student feeling in control

33:10 Tips

CKC = “Communication is key with COVID”

The power of an Excel spreadsheet - people will assume that you're busy and they will walk away.

Zig Ziglar quote “The elevator to success is out of order, but the stairs are always open.”

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About Lockdown Dads

James Millar and Ian Dinwiddy are recording a weekly ‘show’ exploring the impact of lockdown, self-isolation and social distancing on working dads.

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