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1 The Lasting Impact of Small Acts of Love in Marriage 1:02
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As this is my last week of posts on this blog, I want to hit a few important concepts before I move on . For the last nine years, most of my Monday posts have been simple, easy to do things to make your marriage better. Small things can make a real difference, and a steady diet of small things can be huge. The power of simple acts is they don’t cost you much in terms of time or energy. This means you can do a couple of small loving things even when you have an impossible week. Giving her occasional bright moments during a dark time shows that you’re still thinking of her, and still love her. Grand acts are great when you can pull them off well, but they should not take the place of the steady drip of love that comes from doing simple things often. You can see all the simple idea posts here . Image Credit: © patpitchaya | stock.adobe.com Shop Amazon ♦ Shop to give links page We’re donation supported Thanks for your help! This post may contain affiliate links, see my disclosure for info. The post The Lasting Impact of Small Acts of Love in Marriage first appeared on The Generous Husband .…
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1 Navigating Sexual Boundaries with Love and Patience 1:44
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At the start of this year, I suggested that you Honour Your Wife by Letting Go of Sexual Preferences . I said if there were a couple of things you wanted that she keeps rejecting, you should stop asking for those. I proposed your wife is more important than those sex acts. Then someone asked, “What if she has a lot of things she doesn’t like?” I’m assuming this is about a wife who’s willing to have sex, but only does a very few things. So the issue is boredom, not refusal. It’s tempting to say there are men who would give anything to have regular boring sex, but I realise that doesn’t make anyone feel better. The problem is pushing such a woman for more will turn her off. She’s doing what works for her. Other things are a problem either because they don’t arouse her, turn her off, or in her mind they’re unacceptable. My suggestion is to become very skilled at what she’s okay with. And thank her regularly for being there for you sexually. Give her time to feel secure in what you now do. Then suggest something just across the current line. Don’t ask, just say it might be interesting to _____ sometime. This is the best path to doing more. There’s no guarantee, but if you can be loving and patient, odds are it will eventually move the needle. NEW FEED : As I gear up to move to Doing Marriage Well, I’ve set up a Bluesky account that will run the blog posts and a few marriage positive “tweets” a day. @doingmarriagewell.bsky.social If you want to follow by email, you can sign up upper right on Doing Marriage Well . You will receive the last week of posts from Lori. Image Credit: © vera7388 | stock.adobe.com Shop Amazon ♦ Shop to give links page We’re donation supported Thanks for your help! This post may contain affiliate links, see my disclosure for info. The post Navigating Sexual Boundaries with Love and Patience first appeared on The Generous Husband .…
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1 FF: Applying the S-Curve Model to Strengthen Your Marriage 2:14
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Whitney Johnson, a Harvard Business Review blogger, has some interesting ideas I think apply to marriage nicely. In Throw Your Life a Curve Johnson talks about the S curve model for understanding how we learn new things. You start to do something new to improve some aspect of your marriage, or just to make your wife happier. This could be a change of habit, trying to listen better, a new approach to sex, whatever. You start at the lower left of the curve, in the yellow area of the chart above. You are unsure how it’s going to work or exactly what to do. After you struggle for a while, you get the hang of it, and you start to improve rapidly. You get positive feedback from your bride because she is seeing the rapid change; this is the green area. Finally, you have almost mastered what you’re doing, which means there’s not much room to grow or improve. Your wife may stop bragging on you; you may start doing whatever out of habit without much thought, or you may get bored with it. This is the red area. Each phase has dangers: YELLOW : The danger here is giving up. This is the most frustrating part of doing something new. There is little growth, plenty of failure, and little or no recognition of what you’re trying to do. The important thing here is to just keep going. GREEN : The greatest danger here is getting a big head. Don’t let your success or her praise cause you to slack off here or in other areas. You need to add this to the other ways you meet her wants and needs. Another danger is thinking that you’re owed something (see Say no to Quid Pro Quo ). RED : One danger here is backing off just before you master whatever it is you’re doing. Another danger is slipping into autopilot, which means you won’t do as good a job. You might also get so bored you stop doing it, do it less often, or don’t keep doing it as well. Do you see any of this in your past when you tried to improve your marriage? Do you tend to drop out in the yellow zone? Do you think too much of yourself in the green zone, or think she owes you? Do you get to the red zone and drop what you are doing to start a new curve? [This post first appeared Nov 29, 2012 .] Image Credit: © Paul H Byerly Shop Amazon ♦ Shop to give links page We’re donation supported Thanks for your help! This post may contain affiliate links, see my disclosure for info. The post FF: Applying the S-Curve Model to Strengthen Your Marriage first appeared on The Generous Husband .…
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I trust God will understand. I’m not so sure about the neighbors. ~ Papa to Yentl It’s been over forty years since I saw the movie, but I still remember this line clearly. Yentl’s father teaches the Talmud to the boys in his small Polish town. At that time, Judaism forbade teaching the Talmud to women. But behind locked doors and closed curtains, Papa teaches it to Yentl. The quote above is how Papa answers when Yentl asks why he is careful no one sees him teaching her. The Bible talks about the weaker brother, and admonishes us to refrain from behaviour that would offend those weaker in their faith, even if the action is not sin. But what we do in the privacy of our homes and marriages is not seen by the weaker brothers and sisters, and we are free to do anything that is acceptable to God. This applies to what we eat and drink, how we raise our children, and what we do sexually. But while God will understand, some of your Christian neighbours may not. Be careful lest you offered those of weaker faith. So whatever you believe about these things keep between yourself and God. Blessed is the one who does not condemn himself by what he approves. ~ Romans 14:22 NIV Image Credit: © Midjourney Shop Amazon ♦ Shop to give links page We’re donation supported Thanks for your help! This post may contain affiliate links, see my disclosure for info. The post Freedom in Marriage: God vs. What Others Think first appeared on The Generous Husband .…
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1 The Root of All Marital Strife and the Path to Healing 0:49
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I’ve come to the conclusion that there is one single cause for all divorces and unhappy marriages: We fail to do what we should because of selfishness. We do things we should not because of selfishness. We withhold grace and forgiveness because of selfishness. We may blame what we do wrong on our wife’s selfishness. And while that will often be valid, we could instead deal with our selfish response to her selfishness. The good news in this is the way to a better marriage is simple: work on being less selfish. Do please note that generosity is the opposite of selfishness. Image Credit: © https://www.brandcrowd.com Shop Amazon ♦ Shop to give links page We’re donation supported Thanks for your help! This post may contain affiliate links, see my disclosure for info. The post The Root of All Marital Strife and the Path to Healing first appeared on The Generous Husband .…
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1 Beyond Valentine’s: Showing Your Wife Love Year-Round 0:31
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Valentine’s is over. But the need for your wife to know you love her is not. This week, buy her flowers or candy. Send her a loving text. Take her out for the evening, or serve her breakfast in bed. Do this no matter what you did or did not do for Valentine’s. It means even more when it’s not expected. Image Credit: © rocketclips | stock.adobe.com Shop Amazon ♦ Shop to give links page We’re donation supported Thanks for your help! This post may contain affiliate links, see my disclosure for info. The post Beyond Valentine’s: Showing Your Wife Love Year-Round first appeared on The Generous Husband .…
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