Ep 93: What is your Relationship Archetype w/ Rory Kilmartin

Sex, Love & Everything In Between

In this week’s episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob O’Neill invites relationship researcher Rory Kilmartin to dive deep into the hidden dynamics that drive conflict and connection in our relationships. If you’ve ever felt like you’re caught in the same arguments over and over again, it’s time to explore what might be going on beneath the surface.

Rory has spent over 30 years researching human relationships, uncovering the invisible forces that shape how we relate to others—and ourselves. He’s turned one of life’s great mysteries into a body of knowledge that few have even come close to understanding. Through his years of conversations, interviews, and study with elders from around the world, Rory has decoded why good people sometimes create difficult dynamics—and how to finally make sense of it all.

Could your archetypal nature be dictating your relationship struggles? Rory’s groundbreaking work invites you to discover which archetype you unconsciously embody, and how this shapes your behavior in ways you may not even realize. Find out how knowing your archetype can transform your most important relationships.
🔥 Key points they riff on:

•How uncovering your archetype can explain every argument you’ve ever had

•Why understanding these hidden dynamics leads to instant clarity and harmony

•The difference between reacting from survival vs. responding from maturity

•Why you think you’re being loving—but your partner perceives the opposite

•Moving from confusion to clarity in all your relationships, from romance to family
Rory’s work isn’t just another relationship theory—it’s a practical guide to transforming the way you understand and engage with others. If you’re ready to break free from old patterns, this episode is for you.

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• Take the free archetypal quiz here: https://archetypalrelationships.com/quiz
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