“I’m Sorry If You Felt…”: A Guide to Good Apologies

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In this episode, we talk all about how to construct apologies that sincerely express empathy, regret for having messed up, and a promise to do better in the future. Once you’ve taken the time to really think about what you’re saying and why you’re saying it, offering a solid apology isn’t so elusive. We also talk about getting better at receiving apologies, an oft-overlooked aspect of the apology process.

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This episode was produced by Rachel and Sally and edited by Lucas Nguyen. Our logo was designed by Amber Seger (@rocketorca). Our theme music is by Tiny Music. MJ Brodie transcribed this episode. Follow us on Twitter @OhILikeThatPod.

Things we talked about:

How to apologize Like a Goddamn Adult by Sally for BuzzFeed
The Five Ingredients of an Effective Apology by Guy Winch, PhD
Why Won't You Apologize?: Healing Big Betrayals and Everyday Hurts by Harriet Lerner
The Apology Language Quiz
The Five Languages of Apology by Gary Chapman and Jennifer Thomas
The 5 Love Languages
Boring Books for Bedtime podcast
Everyday Dinners: Real-Life Recipes to Set Your Family Up for a Week of Success: A Cookbook by Jessica Merchant