3 Words of Transformation Pt. 3 "Could"

Authentic Men's Group podcast

Could is the focus word of the Benevolent State or state. This is where a man turns from the mirror and seeing his goodness to looking out the window to see how he can use his goodness to change and transform others.

The word could indicates that someone has the ability to do something.

In this stage we are making the proactive proclamation - “I am goodness. I am value.”

“I am love.”

Definitions of Benevolence :

Kindness, compassion, consideration, thoughtfulness, altruism, generosity, open-handedness.

It is in this stage of benevolence we are open to being present for others to give help and assistance.

When you hear that you are a good man you can begin to believe it, when you can begin to believe it, you can begin to say it, when you begin to say it, you can begin to act on it and when you begin to act on being a good man you can make good decisions that can change your world and consequently make the world a good place.

Acronym for Could:

Compassionately

Opens

Up

Loving

Direction

Conclusion:

Could becomes the expression of my goodness and makes us a conduit of goodness and love.

Joy is always going to be in community with others. How open we are for feedback is a good indicator of how we operating in goodness.

It is giving without asking for return. It is expression without expectation. Being completely engrossed in our actions and letting go of the results.

It is ‘otherish giving’ that takes care of self so we can take care of others.

So let's ask ourself, how could we can create change in our sphere of influence every day?