Emotional Intelligence for Men in the Lifestyle with Mr Mocha and Minx

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A Fork, A Precipice, A Decision 24:42

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Episode Notes [01:14] Unexpected Email from Employer [05:49] The Deferred Resignation Program [06:34] Initial Reactions and Concerns [08:01] Evaluating the Offer [08:21] Enhanced Standards of Conduct [08:55] Personal Reflections and Concerns [12:21] Seeking Advice and Making a Decision [13:01] Option One: Do Not Resign [14:56] Option Two: Resign [16:44] Insights from Conversations [21:30] Making The Decision [23:51] Final Thoughts and Gratitude Resources Mentioned Sebastian Junger The Soul of Shame by Curt Thompson Donald Trump Elon Musk Steve Bannon Russell Vought Derek Sivers Sumner Crenshaw Brian Fretwell at Finding Good Chad Littlefield The Thought Leaders Practice by Matt Church Simon Cowell Beauty Pill Producer Ben Ford Questions Asked Is it legitimate, and can it be trusted? How are you feeling? What questions come to your mind? Where does your mind go? Are you seeking safety? Would this have been an adrenaline rush as you raced to send the resignation response? What an "enhanced standard" regarding loyalty and trustworthiness was? What are these new "enhanced standards?" Are they beyond what my Constitutional oath requires? If I don't resign, how bright will the target on my back glow? My leadership has supported all my work, but would termination direction come from higher up the chain of command? What would you recommend if we talked over coffee? What questions would you ask? How would you use listening? How would you use silence? How is this scenario playing out in your mind and body? What is coming to the surface for you? How might that influence what you are about to say to me? What are the chances of my name popping on a list and getting fired? How about the chances of being part of an official Reduction in Force and early retirement? Would the administration make a better offer? What do I know about the pending job market? What did I expect the workplace to be like and did I want to be there as the contractions took place? Will the administration pay me through the end of September or will they renege? Can I sufficiently build the Curated Questions business to transition by 1 October? - Do I have the faith or confidence to step into this future as a sole practitioner and grow Curated Questions into all I envisioned? Was this purpose calling? What would I expect the job market to look like at the end of summer if I hadn't developed the income streams to maintain our lifestyle? What is your recommendation? Did it change from your initial recommendation? Where in your body are you feeling the uncertainty? Are you processing this scenario in parallel with your decision as if you had received the email? What additional questions should I have considered? Who else should I have consulted with? How would you have changed my risk rating? What is the correct length of the pregnant pause before making an important announcement? What processes would you use in my circumstance, and what would be different? What questions are at the top of your list to get to a decision? Who would be the members of your pantheon you would counsel with to gain clarity? Apart from the heady analysis, what other key practices would you include in your journey through a similar situation?…

約 1 年前 1:17:07

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In this continuation of “Men and their emotions with Mr. Mocha and Lupe Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx discuss how men can navigate their emotions in the Ethical Non-Monogamous Lifestyle They discuss the “Active Seeking of the Knowledge” How do you deal with the feelings of watching your wife play or interact with another male. How do men manage their emotions when seeing their partner being pleased by other men in a way that you haven’t or when the play is even better then yours. How to develop Emotional intelligence for men in the Lifestyle And How to build a strong foundation with your S/O in the lifestyle

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Emotional Intelligence for Men in the Lifestyle with Mr Mocha and Minx

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“From Vanilla to Wild" Sex, Freedom & The Power of Pleasure! 1:23:10

5 weeks前1:23:10

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Ever wondered what really happens at sex parties? Or how stepping outside the "norm" can reignite the passion in your relationship? Mr. and Mrs. Mocha are bringing the heat in this episode as they sit down with Tammy , who took a leap into the world of ethical non-monogamy after a chance encounter at a bar introduced her to the lifestyle. From nervously attending her first sex party to finding confidence, connection, and erotic freedom, Tammy shares her unforgettable journey—complete with awkward moments, thrilling encounters, and the unexpected friendships that changed her perspective on relationships and intimacy. She dives deep into what it’s really like to explore new desires, navigate pleasure with confidence, and embrace the power of female sexual empowerment. But here’s the twist— Tammy isn’t just another lifestyle explorer. Spoiler alert: She’s also a sex and relationship therapist and coach, bringing expert insight into why so many couples feel “stuck” and how they can break free to rediscover passion.…

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Let that Freak Flag fly! 51:54

7 weeks前51:54

51:54

Join Mr and Mrs Mocha in this juicy and unfiltered episode as they dish out advice on breaking free from lifestyle peer pressure and embracing your authentic, sexy self . Whether you are new to the scene or a seasoned Explorer they encourage you to break out of cliques , explore different lifestyle communities, and unlock the full potential of your wildest fantasies. And because Mocha always bring the heat , she shares a hilarious explicit tale about her freshly (waxed kitty ) and how it held up during some steamy , friction - filled fun. Spoiler alert it's as spicy as it sounds! If you are a curious couple, a swinging soul, or a bored housewife craving more passion in the bedroom , this episode will inspire you to let your freak flag fly , laugh a little (or a lot ) , and dive into new adventures without shame . Sexy, sassy, and O-so-relatable -- this is one episode you don't want to miss . Tune in , turn on ,and let's talk dirty .…

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From Across the Pond: Secret Vixen Brings Her Sexy Back 1:21:55

8 weeks前1:21:55

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Dive into the steamy world of the swinger lifestyle in this sizzling episode of the Mr. and Mrs. Mocha podcast! Joining us all the way from the UK are none other than Secret Vixen and her husband, Secret Stag, for a no-holds-barred conversation that’s as hot as it is revealing. Discover how this power couple first dipped their toes into the lifestyle and how it reignited Secret Vixen’s confidence, bringing her “Sexy Back” in ways she never imagined. They share intimate details about their very first experience in the lifestyle—a moment that set Secret Vixen’s passion ablaze and inspired her to create a blog where she openly answers burning questions and shares her adventures. Things heat up as Secret Vixen opens up about her recent trip to the US for Splash Mocha, the ultimate interracial hotwife convention. Hear her gush about how empowered and sexy she felt at the event, and her excitement for more U.S.-based experiences. But it doesn’t stop there. Mrs. Mocha doesn’t shy away from turning up the heat, encouraging Secret Vixen to explore even wilder fantasies, including taking on multiple men at once. By the end of the episode, sparks are flying as Mrs. Mocha and Secret Vixen make plans for a sexy team-up to take on a group of irresistibly hot men. This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about the swinger lifestyle, looking to spice up their relationship, or just seeking a fun, adult-themed escape. Whether you’re into sexy reality TV, couples’ sexual therapy, or just love a good, naughty story, this podcast delivers it all—raw, real, and unfiltered.…

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"Men of Ofacez" New Years Eve Live from Splash Mocha 1:38:00

9 weeks前1:38:00

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In our latest live episode, "The Men of Ofacez," recorded at the Splash Mocha Interracial Hot Wife convention in Orlando during the New Year’s Eve event, a powerhouse panel featuring Mr. Mocha, Demetri VC, Chris Minx, Misdaeastcoast, Andre, and Pussy Licka shared their insights. They spoke about the importance of the Lifestyle community—a space that empowers, educates, and teaches accountability. The panel explored themes of normalizing sexual freedom and embracing the reality that men can be vulnerable while still embodying true masculinity. This isn’t your typical relationship podcast—it’s a no-holds-barred exploration of connection, freedom, and the pursuit of pleasure. Tune in and discover what it means to live unfiltered.…

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New Years Eve Splash Mocha Orlando 1:09:42

10 weeks前1:09:42

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"In this episode, recorded live at Splash Mocha in Orlando, Florida, an interracial hotwife event, Mr. Mocha and Mrs. Mocha explored the dynamics of sexual freedom for women within the lifestyle community. They engaged with the audience, including a discussion initiated by an experienced bull about the authenticity of Queen of Spades, and explored the topic of being a married bull in the lifestyle. Mrs. Mocha also shared her journey and how she's become more open sexually, challenging societal norms. The lively audience participation added a fun, sexy, and exciting element, making it a fantastic way to end 2024."…

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Mr. Mocha vs DD Vixen! 1:35:36

15 weeks前1:35:36

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Mr. Mocha and DD Vixen face off infront of a live audience at Splash Mocha Houston. DD Vixen challenges Mr. Mocha about saying " it's your husband's fault ". Her husband Smooth J joined the conversation and was the perfect compliment to her and the show. DD Vixen was fun ,sassy and full of fire. Mrs.Mocha and DD Vixen even joined forces against Mr.Mocha. Mr. and Mrs Mocha both agreed this is the best episode of the year. This is a high energy episode with lots of laughs and audiences participation.…

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Live 2024 Splash Mocha Houston 1:18:13

17 weeks前1:18:13

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Mr. and Mrs. Mocha are joined by party goers live from Splash Mocha Houston 2024. Off the rails from the start but fun and unfiltered! So no subject is off limits. Let's talk sex!

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Mr. Mocha chats with Brian Morgan "The Sigma Male" 54:27

20 weeks前54:27

54:27

Brian define what it means to be a Sigma Male in the Lifestyle. How he was introduced to the LS . And how he it has changed his life. Sex as a single male and the way he brings sexual excitement to lives of couples. He introduces the topic of the " Quality Bull". Join Mr. Mocha and Brian and enjoy the show!…

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Mrs. Mocha at it again! 54:00

21 weeks前54:00

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Mrs. Mocha is finally back to her old ways and loving life. She is back on the D! She is catching out for lost sex and moving full steam ahead!

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Drew Marston Open and Honest about being a Bi black bull. 1:15:43

45 weeks前1:15:43

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Come along on this mind opening discussion as Drew shares his journey and navigation of being a Bi-Sexual Bull. He starts by talking about the struggles of being bi-sexual in a a close minded family and the discouragement he faced early on and how it hindered him from exploring this side of himself. Mr. Mocha shares his own journey from homophobia to understanding and the effects of our society's homophobic programming. They discuss the many aspects of being a bi-sexual bull from making sure you inform couples from the start, navigating a typically straight focused niche of the cuckhold lifestyle and what questions to ask couples to see how open they are. Drew also covers levels of bi-play, how to be comfortable in your own skin as a bi-bull, the differences between full Bi and hetero-flexible and how to communicate with other bulls in the lifestyle who may be open or not open. #Bull #Bisexual #Black Bulls #Cuckold Lifestyle #swingers #theLifestyle #LifestyleJourney #SwingerJourney #lifestyleEducation #swingerEducation #cuckold #bisexualBlackBulls #ofacez #mochaSplash #StagandVixen #Hotwives #Hotwife #cuck #HotWifeCouple #MrMocha #SplashMocha #LGBTQIA+ #homosexual…

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Cuck Corner with Craig Mc Kinney (Splash Mocha recording) 40:15

46 weeks前40:15

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Mr. Mocha interviews The Creator of "Cuck Corner" Craig McKinney live from Splash Mocha. Enjoy the chat and interaction from the live audience. Mike from Keys and Anklets joins the show to help us wrap. Just set back and enjoy the random chats .

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2024 Splash Mocha Atlanta Episode 3 42:52

49 weeks前42:52

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Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx at chop it up with J Prez, mistaeastcoast Craig, Tina from Splash Mocha and a few more guest. Sex, laughs , and flogging. Just Tune in and enjoy!!!!!! Sorry the feed got cut at the end so if you were not with us live you missed it forever!

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The Dirty Girls Corner Splash Mocha Atlanta 2024 1:08:32

49 weeks前1:08:32

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Mrs. Mocha is Back and joined by.... Angel Minx, Siren, Coco and more talk dirty at Splash Mocha Atlanta 2024! Nothing like sexy ladies talkin about sex sex and more sex. In classic Dirty girls style they are wide open, all over the place, and Fun as hell to listen to!!!!!!!!!

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Live from Atlanta Day before Splash Mocha 2024 Day 1 1:01:23

50 weeks前1:01:23

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Mr. Mocha and Mr. Minx pregame at the Splash Mocha live the day before it kicks off. They start off with DFW Goliath and Craig and are invaded by Mrs. Mocha , Angel Minx, Coco and more! The pregame show was all over the place and yet it is a great listen and will get you primed and ready for the following shows! Enjoy!!!!!!!!!…

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Discussing Rejection with The Panel and Special guests Sir Walter Doyle and Socrates 1:07:18

50 weeks前1:07:18

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On this episode. Mr. Mocha and the rest of the panel welcome guest contributors Doyle and Socrates. The guests share their personal stories on the cause of low or no self love. They share the effects that has had on their ability to deal with rejection both in and out of the lifestyle. Doyle contributes with his perspective on going down the rabbit hole of self doubt and how easily it is to fall into negative patterns when you lack an affirming upbringing. Mr. Mocha by comparison shares his own experience of self love and confidence which was grown with his fathers guidance. They also discuss how self talk affects your self esteem and how to change your self talk to boost your self esteem. They round out the discussion by talking about rejection and all its inner and outer workings. How males rejecting each other has an effect but also remembering that a NO right now may not mean NO forever. Come along with this group of experienced lifestyle men as they dive deep into male emotions and experiences. #LowSelfEsteem#FearOfRejection#swingers #theLifestyle#LifestyleJourney #swingerEducation #lifestyleRejection #MenAndTheirEmotions#THeMaleEmotionalJourney…