18: What About Kids Who Don't Serve Missions

LDS Missionary Moms

Hey there, friends! In today's podcast, I opened up about the whirlwind of emotions I felt when my son got his mission call to Zimbabwe Harare Mission—excitement mixed with a touch of fear of the unknown. It's been quite the emotional roller coaster, but chatting with my sister has been a huge help in processing it all.

We also dove into the tough topic of supporting kids who choose not to serve a mission. It's a big deal in our church, especially for the boys, and it's not easy when expectations don't match up with reality. I shared a story about a fellow mom grappling with her son's decision and how it's crucial for us as parents to check in with ourselves. Are we showing unconditional love, or are we letting our fears get the best of us?

Creating a safe space for our kids to talk about their choices is key. I've been there with my own sons, sometimes getting it right, other times... not so much. But it's all about approaching these conversations with kindness and an open heart, no pressure.

To wrap things up, I've got some tips for you, and there's a supportive community waiting to help you through the mission-sending journey. Plus, I'm super excited about an upcoming class that'll give you the tools to prepare your children for missionary service.

May's class on how to set boundaries, how to advocate for themselves, and when to ask for help: https://forms.gle/xqcPkJw1cF8j3ndd8
Missionary Mom Journal: https://www.amazon.com/Missionary-Mom-Chronicles-Michelle-Evans/dp/B0CFZ9GZS8/ref=sr_1_4?crid=2FMSPY3SBZMDG&keywords=missionary+mom+journal&qid=1704483351&sprefix=missionary+mom+journa%2Caps%2C181&sr=8-4
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