🚨 Self-sabotage isn’t just a bad habit—it’s a full-blown defense mechanism dressed up as "logic." 🚨 We tell ourselves, “I’ll fail anyway, so why try?” or “If I succeed, they’ll expect more.” Sound familiar? Carla and DocShellie are here to expose self-sabotage for what it really is: a sneaky thief stealing your happiness, career growth, and even your workout routine. From emotional eating to career-killing procrastination, they break down why we do it—and how to stop it before it derails our progress. Tune in and get ready to call yourself out (with love, of course).…

🚨 What if your biggest fear isn’t failure…but being seen? 🚨 Carla and DocShellie are exposing the hidden fear that keeps so many people playing small—the fear of showing up fully, unapologetically, and authentically. From childhood messages like "Don’t show off" to the gut-clenching doubt of "Am I enough?" , they unpack why visibility can feel like a risk and how to break free from the self-imposed barriers holding you back. If you’ve ever hesitated to share your voice, this episode is your call to step out of the shadows and into your power.…

🚨 NEWS FLASH: Playing small is exhausting , perfectionism is a trap , and people-pleasing is not the flex you think it is. 🚨 Carla and DocShellie are wrapping up their deep-dive into the behaviors that keep us stuck—people-pleasing, mask-wearing, self-doubt, and perfectionism. If you’re tired of over-explaining your "no," struggling with self-worth, or shrinking yourself to keep the peace, this episode hands you the game plan to break free. No fluff, just real talk and practical steps to start living unapologetically YOU.…

🚨 Would You Be Friends With Your Self-Talk?! 🚨 Imagine if that voice in your head was a real person… would you grab coffee with them or run for the hills? 😬 In this episode, Carla and DocShellie rip off the mask of negative self-talk, expose the sneaky ways it holds us back, and show you how to reclaim your inner dialogue. Ready to stop being your own worst critic? Hit play now! 🎧🔥…

Are you a perfectionist trapped behind a mask? This episode of Unapologetic Rabble Rousers exposes the link between perfectionism and people-pleasing. Discover why the pursuit of perfection is a trap, how it stifles your true self, and learn practical strategies to break free from the cycle of self-criticism and embrace your authentic, imperfect self. Ready to ditch the mask and unleash your inner rabble-rouser?…

🚨 PSA for all People-Pleasers 🚨Did you know every “yes” you give away is a “no” to yourself? 🤯In this episode, Carla Lewis and DocShellie expose the sneaky link between people-pleasing and flimsy boundaries. Why do we let others trample over our time and energy? And how do we break the cycle? Tune in for some eye-opening truths, boundary-setting hacks, and—yes—a reality check (delivered with love). Ready to reclaim your peace? Let’s go.…

Welcome back, Rabble-Rousers! This week, DocShellie & Carla Lewis are diving deep into something we all do, and rarely talk about: the masks we wear. Not the Halloween kind (though we had some fun with those!), but the metaphorical ones we slip on to navigate the world. We're talking about the perfectionist's polish, the caretaker's constant giving, the performer's dazzling act – all in the name of fitting in, avoiding judgment, or just feeling safe. What happens when those masks become so ingrained we forget who we are underneath? Join us as we explore the triggers, the tells, and the terrifying (and oh-so-worth-it) act of taking off the mask and daring to be real.…

This episode kicks off our newest series, Breaking Free from People Pleasing to Unapologetic Authenticity . Doc Shelley and Carla Lewis unpack the sneaky habits of people-pleasing, the pain of masking your true self, and the liberating power of saying, “No more!” Through real talk, raw stories, and a touch of humor, they challenge you to rethink what it means to be authentic in a world full of expectations.…

Tired of playing small? Carla and DocShellie are here to call out the BS rules we all live by—especially the ones we didn’t choose. Learn how to shut down your inner naysayer, lean into your power, and finally ask, "Who says I can't?"

In this raw and real episode, DocShellie and Carla Lewis unpack the misunderstood art of rebellion. With humor, candor, and a touch of personal experience, they challenge you to rethink societal norms, silence your inner critic, and step boldly into your power. It’s time to play big, unapologetically.…

In classic Unapologetic Rabble-Rousers style, DocShellie and Carla Lewis dive headfirst into the messy, hilarious, and oh-so-relatable truth bombs we all need to hear. They unpack why worrying about others’ opinions is a waste of time, how to challenge fear like the inner CEO you are, and why your self-worth isn’t up for public debate. It’s a conversation full of imperfect progress, self-love, and maybe a little chocolate at 10 PM.…

What is one thing you wish you’d known sooner? DocShellie and Carla Lewis share a candid and heartfelt conversation about setting boundaries, guarding your precious time, and saying “no” unapologetically. Get ready for real talk, laughter, and a reminder that every "no" to others is a "yes" to yourself.…

Tech Scams, Gaslighting, and the Keys to Your Digital Kingdom! Carla Lewis bares all about a scam that turned her life upside down—thousands lost, accounts hacked, and lessons learned the hard way. Tune in as she and Doc Shellie give you the ultimate guide to surviving the chaos and fighting back. Learn what not to do, laugh at their technical misadventures, and walk away a little wiser about protecting your online self.…

Change. It's inevitable. Sometimes we chase it, sometimes it chases us. But whether we're embarking on a new adventure or reacting to unforeseen circumstances, the journey is rarely straightforward. In this episode, Carla Lewis & DocShellie peel back the layers of personal transformation, exploring the emotional terrain, navigating resistance, and ultimately, discovering the power of self-awareness and the importance of cultivating a support system that understands your unique path…

“Should-ing" all over yourself? Not here! Carla and DocShellie keep it real as they hit their 52nd episode milestone, sharing lessons on embracing the mess, managing priorities, and talking back to your brain when it’s up to no good. It’s a laugh-out-loud, thought-provoking, unapologetically honest episode you won’t want to miss.…