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Sex Every Other Weekend with Alissa Daire Nelson and Joel Nelson In this episode, Sam, Pat, Alissa and Joel discuss: · Remarried with children. · How to serve, honor and respect your spouse. · Finding harmony with totally different personalities. · How to decipher anger and irritation. · Just say yes to sex! Key Takeaways: · Take care of yourself e…

Make a Love List, Check it Twice with Jim and Jamie Sheils In this episode, Sam, Pat, Jim and Jamie discuss: · How time management effects the family. · The List of qualities you desire in your future spouse. · Learning together as a couple. · How to deepen your connection with your spouse. Key Takeaways: · Family time should always be a priority. …

Love is Presence with Traci & David Osborn In this episode, Sam, Pat, Traci and David discuss: · Choosing the relationship first over fights and whatever else may come up. · Meeting your own needs and being responsible for your own happiness. · Tips for maintaining a successful relationship while also shooting for higher levels of success in your p…

Interested in a More Fulfilling Sex Life? With Jaiya In this episode, Sam and Jaiya discuss: What it means to be a somatic (body based) sexologist and how Jaiya got into the field. The importance of a real, healthy sex conversations and education. Jaiya's Erotic Blueprints which identify your sexual language - like Dr. Chapman's 5 Love Languages bu…

The Pirate Ship of Love with Jon & Tatyana Vroman In this episode, Sam, Pat, Jon and Tatyana discuss: Tatyana's podcast debut! What Jon and Tatyana have learned about themselves over the course of their 10+ year relationship (patience). Benefits of afternoon sex and also morning sex. Being authentic and allowing your partner to be their authentic s…

Quitting is Not an Option: With Nancy & Julio Garcia In this episode, Sam, Pat, Nancy and Julio discuss: · Loving yourself by standing in your truth about what you need in a relationship · The dangers of falling into a routine in your life and relationship · Finding fun in everything you do – enjoy your life – 80-100 years isn’t that long · Grudges…

Building Legendary Couples With Lance and Brandy Salazar In this episode, Sam, Pat, Lance and Brandy discuss: · Casting a vision for your relationship, creating a plan, and taking massive action · ‘Appreciative Inquiry’ and applying it to relationships · Working through major triggers · How to get it on when you live in a 1400 sq ft house and you h…

Leveling Up Relationships Through IMAGO Therapy with Rabbi Shlomo and Rivka Slatkin In this episode, Sam, Pat, Shlomo and Rivka discuss: How romantic love (Eros) tricks us into getting married. Having children (especially the first one) can amplify issues in relationships. Dealing with the past to push through to the future. Creating safety in your…

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Iain and Gabrielle discuss: How to have heaven on earth in your marriage How to use intention in conversation Different personalities in a relationship Sometimes as a spouse you have to let your spouse make their own decisions, even if you don't agree with it Key Takeaways: Explain why you're having a conversation about s…

The Good Times are Worth the Bad Times, Just ask Tim & Tina Rhode In this episode, Sam, Pat, Tim, and Tina discuss: How Tim and Tina met and fell in love. What it's like to have an ex-wife while taking care of your kids? What do Tim and Tina do when they're fighting? What happens after the "happily ever after"? Tina had to put her marriage on the l…

How to Love a Pain in the Ass Unconditionally- With Philip and Pauline Mckernan In this episode, Sam, Pat, Philip and Pauline discuss: Who are Philip and Pauline? Why is Philip such a pain in the ass? How did Pauline learn unconditional love? Key Takeaways: Working together as a couple is a make or break moment. Have a strong sense of purpose helps…

Don't Say No With Yoko Kasai and Rick Graves In this episode, Sam, Pat, Yoko and Rick discuss: How they met..Love at first sight? Uh..No. Teaching kids about sex? Test drive before you buy. Key Takeaways: Do not keep score. It can be good to change who is in charge of finances until you both truly get it. Playing hard to get can go either way.Befor…

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Honoree and Byron discuss: From blind date to ten year marriage Fried turkey is sexy Making room in the relationship so both partners can be themselves Different ways to communicate Key Takeaways: Chocolate is the ultimate pacifier Focus on what’s really wrong, not what you think is wrong Sometimes you need a little tough…

That’s My Story and I am Sticking To It In this episode, Sam, Pat, Heather and Derek discuss: Who takes care of the kids and who gets to go golfing. You are not the only crazy one. Strategies to avoid fighting. Don't be a shitty husband. Key Takeaways: Sometimes its best to find a different caddy. Trust and support is vital in relationships. Commun…

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Tucker, and Veronica discuss: Tucker and Veronica's ultimate romantic getaways Having a rewarding relationship based on growth One flight that made it all history Key Takeaways: Tucker and Veronica were set up by Tucker's CrossFit coach! The special moment when Veronica knew that Tucker was the one was when Tucker was fly…

In this episode, Sam, Pat, Kim and Pat discuss: The journey of their relationship of 31 years You sure you're in labor? I just have to stop at the office and send a quick fax. Advice to their younger selves A candid discussion of the vital role of sex in a relationship Key Takeaways: Simply being curious about how to make a relationship better is y…

Introduction to Doggy Style from Behind…the Scenes In this episode, Sam and Paddy discuss: How Paddy and Sam got behind the mic Bringing back a marriage from the edge of divorce The purpose of this podcast and the choice of the title Being in a supportive relationship Key Takeaways: Sam and Paddy's book, Bigger Love, is about how they went from bei…