Making Expectations Great Again Part 1 | LQ021

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On today’s episode, we dive into the tricky terrain of expectations in relationships. You know, those little things that can make or break the entire vibe. It turns out, mismatched or unrealistic expectations—whether about our partners or about how we think a relationship should be—can really shake the foundation and leave us feeling disappointed or even resentful.

But don't worry, there’s a bright side! By rephrasing those expectations in a kind and mindful way, we can actually spark something healthier and more fulfilling. One small but powerful change? Ditch the “never” and “always.” Instead, try framing things with, “It’s important to me that we…” This small shift can make a world of difference!

Now, for a fun activity to try with your partner: each of you should jot down 5 to 10 expectations you have for your relationship. Yes, actually write them out—no shortcuts! Once you’ve got your lists, trade and read them out loud to each other. Trust us, seeing it in black and white is key for the magic to happen.

Stay tuned for part two where we’ll take these lists to the next level!

About the Host:

Meet Crystal, your relationship and social health coach. Crystal is the founder of Sparked Forever Relationship & Singles coaching. She started her journey supporting the neurodiverse community in navigating this, sometimes frustrating, neurotypical social world. Lessons and inspiration from her earlier work drives Crystal’s passion for bringing couples and singles together through acceptance, understanding and big picture thinking to grow vibrant relationships. Crystal understands that the foundation for our social health and well-being starts with making connections to others. When Crystal is not working with couples, she loves to be out on adventures with her partner and bonus kids or spending time connecting with friends over good food and fun music.

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