Nurturing Healthy Relationships

Daily Love Letters from God

"Use the relationship that we have with God as a compass to define what healthy relationships look like." - Wesleyne

Word of the Day

"The Lord is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger, abounding in love."- Psalms 103:8

Wesleyne addresses the struggle many face when realizing they've never had a healthy relationship. She acknowledges the sadness and despair that can accompany this realization but emphasizes the strength in recognizing the root cause of one's pain. Using Psalms 103:8 as a guide, Wesleyne illustrates how God's attributes of compassion, grace, patience, and love serve as benchmarks for healthy relationships. She encourages listeners to assess their relationships based on these qualities, asking if they receive compassion, grace, and love from others. Wesleyne emphasizes personal responsibility, reminding listeners that relationships can only be as healthy as the individuals in them. She urges self-reflection and the importance of working on oneself before expecting healthy relationships. The message is clear: take one step at a time, giving yourself grace in the process.

Takeaways:

1. Recognize the strength in realizing the root cause of your pain.
2. Use God's attributes as a compass for healthy relationships: compassion, grace, patience, and love.
3. Assess relationships based on whether they demonstrate compassion, grace, and love.
4. Take personal responsibility for your own actions and emotions.
5. Prioritize self-reflection and personal growth before expecting healthy relationships.

Chapters:

• 00:00- Celebrating Self-Realization
• 01:51- Using God's Attributes as a Compass
• 03:23- Assessing Relationships
• 05:41- Personal Responsibility and Growth
• 07:08- Giving Yourself Grace

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