Are you ready to create a life that is better than ever before? We are Doreen Yaffa and Jeff Wilson and we are here to give you the strategies you need to create the life after divorce that you deserve and desire. As partners in both marriage and in coaching, we use our expertise as well as our own personal experiences to help you make the next chapter of your life the BEST chapter. DISCLAIMER: The content of Life After Divorce Coaching is for educational purposes only. As always, consult a ...
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Whether you are co-parenting or striving for a more civil relationship, effective communication with a clear purpose is crucial. In this episode, Jeff and Doreen explore strategies designed to help you navigate conversations with anyone, especially your ex. They share insights and practical tips to enhance your communication skills, fostering bette…
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Divorce mediation is a viable option for couples considering divorce in Florida. This voluntary process allows couples to make decisions about various aspects of their divorce with the assistance of a mediator. In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss the process itself and add in a few tips to make the process go smoother and allow for the process …
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Guilt manifests in various forms during a divorce, often intertwined with feelings of regret and shame. It's common for at least one party to experience guilt to some degree. If left unaddressed, guilt can disrupt the divorce process, particularly during settlement negotiations, in two primary ways. First, guilt can lead to one party making overly …
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In this episode, Doreen and Jeff delve into the delicate topic of introducing a new romantic partner to one's children. They explore the timing and approach that are essential for ensuring a smooth and positive transition for both the parent and the children. By discussing the right time and the appropriate manner in which to introduce a new partne…
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Unchecked anger can exacerbate the challenges of divorce, fueling extensive and bitter litigation that inflicts unnecessary financial strain on families. Prolonged legal battles, lasting for months or even years, and can tear families apart and pose significant harm to children. In this episode, Jeff and Doreen offer guidance on effectively managin…
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Often, we're drawn to the allure of the "after" picture without fully embracing the journey it takes to get there. We yearn for the end result without wanting to endure the river of misery that flows in between. It's human nature to desire instant gratification and to shy away from the process, preferring immediate results over the daily steps requ…
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In today's episode, Jeff and Doreen delve into the concept of finding oneself, emphasizing that this journey is merely the starting point. Beyond discovering your true self, it's essential to identify your desires and goals, and then take proactive steps to manifest the life you envision. Taking action is the crucial key to transforming your aspira…
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Rather than succumbing to feelings of embarrassment, guilt, or being immobilized by procrastination, consider the potential for something extraordinary. In this episode, Jeff and Doreen dive into Procrastination and how it can serve as a catalyst for unleashing your creativity and productivity. By understanding your procrastination patterns, you ca…
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In this episode, Doreen and Jeff delve into a crucial aspect of navigating divorce: understanding your assets. Whether you're considering divorce or already in the midst of it, having a clear grasp of your financial landscape is essential. Join them as they discuss why knowledge truly is power in this situation.…
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In this episode, Jeff and Doreen explore the theme of reclaiming your power. Discover strategies to embrace personal responsibility and move away from blame as part of the healing journey following a divorce.
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While going through divorce there are many circumstances that we cannot control. The one thing we always have control over, however, is ourselves. And taking responsibility for ourselves is incredibly empowering and a huge part of the healing process. It isn’t about blaming yourself for the divorce. It’s about seeing every situation in your life as…
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In this episode, "It's Dad Time," podcast host and a pioneer chiropractor Dr Rocco along with Jeff delve into the journey of fathers and their children navigating through divorce. They explore strategies for crafting a fulfilling life post-divorce as a single parent, shedding light on effective ways for dads to excel as co-parents.…
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What would the You, that has already achieved, that has already become, that is already where you want to be, how would you act today and what decisions would you make differently if you made decisions as if you were already there? In this episode Doreen and Jeff discuss how living your present life future minded can be essential to creating an ama…
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Ep. 136 - Loving your life after Divorce
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You truly have the capacity and capability to create the life you want and deserve after Divorce. In this episode Jeff and Doreen will discuss how the pieces explained in the last five episodes all work together in this recording of February’s webinar.
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In the fifth installment of our series, Jeff and Doreen dive into the concluding segment titled "Results." They explore the current state of your life and the journey that brought you here, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness in determining what your life will look like in your life after divorce. This invaluable resource underscores the i…
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Sir Issac Newton said, “For every action there is a reaction.” Meaning there is going to be an action created by a feeling. Another famous saying says “reaping what you sow” meanining you are going to get out of it what you put into it. Welcome to episode 134 on Actions. Whether you do something or do nothing, there I always going to be some kind o…
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Greetings and welcome to Episode 133 of our podcast! In today's installment, marked as Part 3 of our five-part series, we embark on a journey to unravel the profound connection between your thoughts and the outcomes they generate in your life. Delving into the intricate workings of emotions and exploring effective coping mechanisms, you'll gain ins…
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Welcome to Episode 132 of our podcast. This is Part 2 of 5 and where we uncover how powerful our thoughts can be and how they create different feelings and emotions. Doreen and Jeff discuss how you can have thoughts that serve your goals and dreams. It’s all about awareness and control of your thoughts. Find out how this ability alone will make the…
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Welcome to Episode 131 of our podcast, where we kick off a 5-part series on the Elements of the Model. In this series, we explore the powerful tool known as “The Model” and how it can be used to customize your amazing life after divorce. In this episode, Doreen and Jeff take a deep dive into the elements that make up the model, starting with the fi…
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Ep. 130 - Brian Howie, Host of The Great Love Debate
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Today's guest is the incredible Brian Howie, the creator of the highly acclaimed podcast "The Great Love Debate," which is known as the world's number one dating and relationship podcast. Brian has earned the title of America's number one dating enthusiast through his extensive knowledge and expertise in the field. For our listeners who are either …
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In this thought-provoking podcast episode, Doreen and Jeff dive into the misconception that success is a prerequisite for happiness. They explore the idea that happiness actually plays a crucial role in achieving success, especially in the context of life after divorce. Additionally, they delve into the distinction between happiness and success, qu…
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Ep. 128 - Loving Yourself: Embracing the Past, Present, and Future
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Welcome to a motivational episode where Doreen and Jeff dive into the concept of self-love. Discover the significance of loving your past, present, and future self, and learn practical strategies to cultivate a deep sense of self-acceptance and appreciation. Tune in to gain valuable insights on how to truly love yourself, regardless of your persona…
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If it’s your goal to change your life after divorce it’s important to guard the door to your mind. In this episode we are going to discuss how you might be influenced and by whom. How to protect yourself from unwanted influences and to invite inspiring influences into your life. If you want to have the most amazing life after divorce, change who yo…
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We have with the brand-new gorgeous year ahead of us and the past completely behind us. We now have a fresh start and an amazing opportunity to make 2024 the best year ever. In this episode Doreen and Jeff talk about the choices that we make when we have a new start. How to get past the tough times and focus on your successes.…
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Saying goodbye isn’t easy and most of us don’t do it enough. What we mean by that, it is beneficial to your future life after divorce to say goodbye to the things in your life that no longer serve you. In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss how and why to say goodbye to things in your life that don’t serve your future self.…
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Ep. 124 – Before, During and After Divorce Accountability
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Get ready for a sizzling episode that will leave you fired up and ready to take charge of your life! It's time to own up to your thoughts, actions, and results, and yes, even your role in that divorce. Brace yourself for a mind-blowing shift in perspective as we dive into the power of personal accountability. This episode is all about empowering yo…
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Divorce can be a challenging and transformative experience. As you navigate this new chapter in your life, it's important to find ways to rediscover your passions to create a fulfilling future. In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss finding your passion and how to apply them to your post-divorce journey.…
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In the beginning stages of healing after divorce it’s normal to experience grief, sadness, and anger and other emotions can start you on an emotional rollercoaster. Emotions like these may cause you to pull away from others and isolate yourself, which can eventually lead to feelings of loneliness. In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss loneliness …
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In this episode Jeff interviews Board Certified Family Attorney Doreen Yaffa on some great tips to consider before you divorce.
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The thoughts we have are very powerful to the results we have in our life, especially when you are moving past divorce and picking up the pieces to your next best life. In this episode, Jeff and Doreen discuss a helpful tool called the Model that will clarify how this works.
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In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss setting Boundaries. When you set a boundary with other people in your life, it can be very empowering and can really accelerate the healing process and your growth after divorce.
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Often the people we have Manuals for aren’t even aware that these so-called “rule books” exist, yet we expect them to follow the rules in them and then we get upset with them when they don’t. In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss how to shed your manuals and lead a more empowering life after divorce.…
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A very common and expected emotion that shows up before, during and after divorce is Anger. In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss how to except your anger as a normal emotion. Once you are aware of your anger and what to do with it to serve your goals and your future.
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Ep. 116 - What Can You Learn from Your Divorce
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There is so much you can learn about yourself from your divorce. In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss turning your feelings into a commitment to improve yourself and empower yourself to heal, learn and create the best life ever after divorce.
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In the episode, Jeff and Doreen explain how they believe and teach the concept of get happy before you leave. Don’t leave a situation in order to be happy. Find out when and how to leave.
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In this episode Jeff and Doreen as they give you 10 concepts on life that are important elements of their coaching practice. Try these out for size. They might just blow your mind and affect your life in so many ways.
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When worrying become excessive, persistent and uncontrollable it can affect your daily life and slow down the healing process after divorce. Well, don’t worry about it! In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss how to get a grip on worrying and give you 6 tips on how to take control back of your life.
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One of the biggest issues after divorce is holding grudges. In this episode Doreen & Jeff discuss the benefits of letting grudges go no matter who you are holding a grudge against. Learn some tips on how to get rid of grudges that could possibly hold you back from the life you desire after divorce.
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If you can figure out the reasons your last relationship broke up, you’ll be less likely to travel the same road again. Do you keep choosing the wrong type of partner? Do you sabotage your relationships by hiding your true thoughts and feelings? Reflection can be painful and time-consuming, but it’s the best way to gain insight. If you keep making …
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Ep. 110 – Thinking about a Prenuptial and Postnuptial?
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In this episode Jeff interviews Doreen about prenups and postnups. Learn how these agreements can help before, during and after your marriage.
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Are your “All or Nothing” thoughts slowing down your healing process after your divorce? In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss what a “All or Nothing” mindset is and how this one dimensional thinking can effect your future growth in your life.
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Ep. 108 - Procrastination before, during and after Divorce
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Is procrastination holding you back from filing, getting through or getting over your divorce? Doreen and Jeff discuss how to turn your procrastinations into motivations. Don’t let procrastination paralyze your goals towards your amazing life after divorce.
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Resentment can be that negative emotion that can hold you back from the future you deserve after divorce. In this week’s episode Jeff and Doreen discuss why it can hold you back and what to do if you’re stuck in resentment.
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Goal setting after divorce keeps you grounded and focused on what you really want for your new life. In this episode Jeff and Doreen discuss why goal setting is important to launching and achieving that new life after divorce. Find out why your goals must be S.M.A.R.T. and how to stay focused on your desired life.…
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Are you visiting the “Self-Pity Party?” In this week’s episode Doreen and Jeff discuss how you compound your negative emotions by feeling sorry for yourself instead of doing something about it.
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Do you want to feel like you’re on a permanent vacation? In this episode Doreen and Jeff discuss how to manage your time after divorce so you can enjoy your down time as if you were on vacation.
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Success is sweet Revenge, especially after divorce. In this episode Doreen and Jeff discuss how everyone must fail to succeed. It’s these failures that make success the best revenge on your own doubts and barriers that you put on yourself.
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Thoughts are real. You can smell them, sell them, and even hear them. In this episode, Doreen and Jeff discuss the power thoughts have in your life after divorce and how you can decide how to use your thoughts to shape your future.
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While they might not understand the full extent of life after divorce, pets do experience sadness and depression when someone is no longer a part of their daily lives. In this episode Doreen and Jeff discuss tips on how you can help your pet deal with divorce, as well as, what to consider when you’re thinking about getting a pet after divorce.…
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As we celebrate our 100th episode and the 4th of July, we are discussing your new independence after divorce. We discuss your independence from your spouse and some things you may want to consider as you explore new relationships.
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