Is it good to put your lover to the test? That is the question of this episode. Join us as we discuss this question and see the good and the bad in testing your partner and how some tests can bring some light or cause you and you r lover to end up having different feelings for each other in the end.

Do you ever notice how social media has a lot of people who love to give out advise regarding relationships and that the kind of advise they give sometimes doesn't work for you and you end up in an even worse situation than what you were in in the first place? Yep there are a lot of them and in this episode we quickly get into how that can be very …

We all have been through those relationships that left us questioning "what the hell was i thinking?" or one that ended so badly that it left you a little bitter, but does it mean that we have to talk ill about them now that it's over? It's normal to have all the negative feelings about having to end a relationship but it's always a good idea to re…

Welcome back fellow Osam fam, we are glad to be back and with a bang. Imagine a world without ultimatums ,one where we are not put in positions that force us to choose between the things we love or even the people we love. In this episode we talk about the craziest and truly dumbest ultimatums anyone can give a person and question why exactly we ne…

Do you ever think to yourself about the relationship you have and how the timing was on point? In this episode we talk about how things tend to happen at the right time when maybe you have grown or realized what it is that you want or most importantly what you need.

At some point in a relationship we feel we need to step it up and make things official if you may and that is by moving your relationship to the next level. One thing that we need to ensure before such moves is to know and be truly sure about the decision and if we have really thought about it, thoroughly. Join us in this lengthy discussion.…

Can a cheater change and become someone who is faithful to their lover? Does cheating once make you a person who is always going to be associated with cheating? In this episode we discuss whether cheating on your partner means you will always cheat in your future relationships.

I oy ever love someone so much that you will do anything like fight for them or do all you can to make sure they don't get bullied by anyone? This is what that episode is about, also we mention how it can be hard for a woman to defend her man because of double standards (a previous episode).

Sometimes we come across people who are there to teach us something and it feels so good when you realize that it was best that you didn't last in that relationship. In this episode we discuss how it's good to realize and not regret those who did not make it to your future.

As people with different backgrounds it's normal to find love in someone who has different beliefs from yours but that shouldn't be something that hinders you from dating, if you can respect each other. It's necessary to understand and realize that if we are really serious about our relationship we will respect each other and what we believe in.…

Encouragement is something that we need to get especially from someone who is meant to be building a future with you. In this episode we discuss the message it brings and what it shows when your partner encourages you to do something that you are passionate about and that if that's not the case then maybe you may need to go find someone who for you…

Boundaries are a real thing that need to be discussed and there's many types of things that can happen whether knowingly or not. Join us in this episode and comment on the types of boundaries you have and always express for a smoother relationship.

Quality time is a necessity in a relationship because life does get in the way with all the responsibilities that come with it and we forget to give attention to our partners. In this episode we discuss how important it is to really spend quality time with your lover in order to learn anything new about them if there is.…

Trust issues, the main hastag of this episode. Sometimes we need to let things come out on their own without us having to go looking for them. Why do we check phones?

A big question that you should ask in the beginning of getting to know someone who could be your potential partner. This is a necessary thing because we don't want to be strung along with no idea about what our goal is. We need to communicate these things to avoid feelings of disappointment.

This guy/girl doesn't do the things my ex did... Words that could mean two things. Either you are better or worse than the previous. This episode we discuss comparisons and their effects.

Sex! Sex! Sex! Let's talk more about sex, who initiates sex and how we should try to get it on as much as possible. One thing we do not realize is that sex is a deep part of intimacy and can help you reconnect and resolve your problems.

Sometimes it's not a good idea to just air out your problems to just anybody because some things within a relationship are meant to be dealt with between the two of you. In this episode we discuss how it's not recommended to air out your dirty laundry and that you should what who you air out your problems to.…

In this episode we discuss the importance of being honest with firstly yourself and then with others. We sometimes want the truth but how will we handle it? Will our relationship make it after such honesty?

In this episode we discuss friends of the opposite sex and if it's possible to have a strictly platonic relationship. We are joined by the rapper Rue who adds to the Osam Thoughts with her own point of view.

In this episode we discuss double standards and the effect it has on society.

On this episode we discuss the dangers of allowing a third party to interfere in your relationship by spending or telling you things that may not be something to worry about but you do and it starts trouble.

In this episode we talk about social media and how it makes us behave sometimes without thinking about the consequences.

In this episode we discuss the importance of nipping things in the bud as soon as possible. We offer insight on how addressing something as soon as possible can help avoid conflict, misunderstanding and communication issues.

In this episode we discuss the importance of having a vision for your relationship and if both parties have the same vision or at least one that complements the other without the need to sacrifice your vision for someone else.

In this episode we talk about having sex on the first date and the types of stigma it may have. We get into how society see's it especially toward the female gender.

In this episode we talk about having someone on the side and how it can be not so much of a good thing because we should be or at least try and focus on the person you are with without having a distraction. Join the conversation.

In this episode we discuss the so called honeymoon phase which Queen feels deeply that it should not exist. We get into what it is and how long it said to last. Join in on this conversation, you will not regret it.

In this episode we talk about the importance of getting to your old self or even new self by healing after a break up. We get into the pros and cons of taking time to yourself before getting involved with someone else.

Sooooooo.. In this episode we discuss sex aka Rodeo Talk. This is a very juicy episode and it's about something that we all enjoy and can have something to add to it.

In this episode we discuss character and how some characters will tend to drive people away from you or give you a bad reputation. So join us in this episode as we show ourselves to the public.

In this episode we discuss how we can keep things interesting in a relationship and keep that thing alive. Join us in this topic as we give out juicy ideas and spark kinky thoughts. You will not regret it.

In this episode we discuss getting too comfortable in a relationship that we start to forget that we still have to make efforts to maintain that relationship. Join us in this great session, you will not regret it.

In this episode we get into it about having breaks in the relationship and how that could mean different things to people. Join us for this conversation, you will not regret it.

In this episode we get into it regarding stereotypes and break it down to show that it's not a good idea to have that type of mentality and how disregarding stereotypes can help you in relationships. Tune in you won't regret it.

In this episode we discuss the issue of sticking it out for the children and how that can be a bad example for the children when it comes to what a good relationship looks like. Join us in this discussion.

In this episode we discuss communication and the benefits of communication. We also get into the different ways people communicate. Join us for this conversation, you will not regret it

On today's episode we discuss what types are and what it means to have a type. We get into what having a type does for you and if it is actually a good thing to have a type. All in all we figure out through the conversation we figure out that you should be looking for what you need rather than what you want.…

In this episode we speak on how important it is to be friends within a relationship and how being friends helps when is comes to dealing with issues or arguments.

In this episode we discuss protecting each other other in all types of ways and situations. We digress a bit into outside voices meddling in the relationship, advice, empathy and sympathy, all in all we tackle the importance of being there for each other and to make sure that they do not do anything that is not good for their reputation.…

In this episode we go back to when we decided that King will meet my parents. We discuss how that decision came to be and also some advice when it comes to meeting the parents and how that helps in your relationship.

In our first episode we get into a deep discussion about dress code within a relationship and how that can be misinterpreted. We also lay out some tips on how to maintain a smooth relationship and just share our honest ideas and thoughts. Join us and see if we can spark ideas in you.