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THE VIBRANT SURVIVOR -How to Identify a Narcissist, Narcissistic Abuse, Toxic Relationships, Childhood Trauma Healing

Lesley Cain - Health and Wellness Coach, Trauma Informed Coach, Healthy Boundaries Coach

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***TOP 1.5% PODCAST*** Heal after narcissistic abuse. Do you want to disconnect from narcissistic or toxic relationships? Are you feeling stressed and lonely in dysfunctional family and work environments, or social groups? Are you ready to heal after narcissistic abuse? In this podcast, you’ll find holistically healing solutions to set you free from narcissistically abusive relationships, trauma-related health issues, and the enabling of toxic behavior. My mission is to help you heal after n ...
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When you’re on a journey to becoming fully who you are, you will notice red flags in relationships, friendships, women, men, religion, culture, politics and society. This season of “The Courage to Identify” podcast is all about finding those red flags for you, making right decisions and still choosing to be brave to walk into your full identity. In this season I talk to experts, survivors, journalists and interesting people who have been through so much in life. Follow my podcast, listen to ...
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Looking for a more fulfilling life but having trouble knowing where to start? Have an idea of what you’d like but fear holding you back from getting started? Tired of starting and stopping on your dreams but not sure how to break the cycle? LET THE IDEA GENIUS HELP! Hey girl! My name is Kim Osborne and I’m a business owner and personal development expert that has spent over 10 years helping women of faith that struggle with having the clarity and confidence to pursue their purpose break thos ...
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Hey, Survivor! How can you find joy, after narcissistic abuse? In this episode, you’ll learn 3 healthy ways that can enhance your wellbeing and enrich the lives of others. It’s easy to focus on the narcissist, and what they said and did in your toxic relationship. But it’s important to cultivate community and tap into the healing power of healthy r…
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In this episode, I interviewed Katie Brown, adoptive mom and travel guru, about her family's journey to, and through, adoption. We had a beautiful conversation about how adoption transforms what you believe about God, and how it changes the way we trust Him. Listen now to get insight into what the process looked like practically, emotionally, and s…
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Hey, Survivor! How are you at identifying and navigating narcissistic courtroom behaviors? In this episode, I’m sharing 7 ways that the narcissist behaves in court; and offering strategies to help you respond, not react. Narcissistic and toxic courtroom drama is sad and stressful, which can compromise your health and wellbeing. It’s important to st…
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Hey, Survivor! How are you hindering your narcissistic coworker on the job? In this episode, I’m explaining 4 ways; and offering strategies on navigating narcissism at work. Enabling narcissistic coworkers hurts you and hinders them. Tired, toxic narratives that you’ve been taught and trained to tolerate and perpetuate may be playing a role in this…
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Hey, Survivor! How do you respond when more truths are revealed about your narcissistic family? In this episode, I’m sharing 7 healthy responses. It’s painful when toxic relationships are normalized, especially among those who are supposed to love and protect you. And generational trauma can fuel PTSD and other mental health issues. So, you have to…
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This episode is an interview with Angie Ochoa about her adoption journey, through three adoptions via foster care. We talk about the ins and outs of home studies, maintaining a strong marriage, and the beauty of how the Lord shows up in the journey. Find Angie on Instagram at @angieochoa_pursuingjoy or Pinterest HERE If you are interested in the Sc…
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Hey, Survivor! How are you preparing your teen to navigate narcissism as an adult? In this episode, I’m sharing 8 ways to do this. It’s normal to feel embarrassed about unhealthy relationships, not trusting your gut, and falling for the lies and manipulations of narcissists. However, you can still make a difference! If you, or someone you know, nee…
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Hey, Survivor! Ever questioned whether or not you’ve done enough? If you are enough? In this episode, I’m sharing 5 tips to help the next generation, as a narcissistic abuse survivor. It’s normal to feel inadequate, after narcissistic abuse. Yet, it provides an opportunity to heal and help others. If you, or someone you know, need help using your p…
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Hey, Survivor! Does your brain feel drained, after narcissistic abuse? In this episode, I’m giving 5 reasons why, and tips on how to heal. It’s normal to feel mentally drained from toxic relationships. And it’s important to give yourself grace, as you reclaim your energy and mental wellbeing. If you, or someone you know, need help identifying, navi…
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Hey, Survivor! Do you ever wonder why the narcissist goes dark? In this episode, I’m breaking down 3 reasons for this behavior and how to navigate it. Regardless of the nature of the toxic relationship, I’ve seen this pattern play out. When this happens, it’s important to set and reinforce healthy boundaries; and focus on your mental health and wel…
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Hey, Survivor! How do you begin to self-regulate, after narcissistic abuse? In this episode, I’m offering 5 reasons to disconnect from the narcissist or toxic situation. I’ve had to do this in various relationships for the sake of my health and wellbeing. It’s a powerful tool, and it can help you too! If you, or someone you know, need help disconne…
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Hey, Survivor! How do you handle the narcissistic smirk? In this episode, I highlight 3 things to note about this normal, yet negative, non-verbal cue. I’ve dealt with this recently, and I know that behind this toxic power play, there is defensiveness, insecurity, and a need to mask it. Don’t be fooled! And don’t sacrifice your mental health by giv…
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Hey, Survivor! What are some red flags that you’ve noticed when the narcissist, or their enablers, propose a peace treaty? This episode includes 4 red flags and how to navigate them. I’ve been there, and I’ve learned that the narcissist needs you more than you need them; and there won’t be any peace. Don’t engage! You’re worthy of healthy relations…
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Hey, Survivor! How do you react, when the narcissist tries to bait you? This episode includes 7 ways to navigate the lies, false accusations, triangulation, projection, threats, and other toxic behaviors. The struggle is REAL! I’ve been there, and I’m here to help you prioritize your healing and healthy relationships. Don’t be fooled by the narciss…
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Re-releasing this episode from 2020 as we continue our conversations about adoption! This episode is an incredible conversation with a dear friend who adopted 2 amazing boys from Haiti. During our conversation, she opens up about some of the ways God showed His faithfulness to her and her husband, Trent, during the wait.…
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Hey, Survivor! How have you been triggered by the narcissist in court? In this episode, I’m sharing 7 trauma-informed suggestions on how to navigate these intense moments. I’m sorry if this has happened to you, or is currently happening to you. And I encourage you to prioritize your mental and emotional health and wellbeing. You’re worthy, strong, …
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This episode is with Joy Henderson, a mom of five, two biological and three adopted. This conversation was so life-giving and encouraging! We talked about some of the emotional aspects of being an adoptive parent, as well as some of the more practical things that can help you get started, if you've been considering and don't know where to start. In…
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Hey, Survivor! How has the narcissist tried to hoover you? In this episode, I’m sharing 6 contactless narcissistic hoover maneuvers. Hoovering sucks. And the toxic stress and drama that go along with it, aren’t worth sacrificing your health and wellbeing. If you, or someone you know, need help navigating contactless hoover maneuvers, this episode i…
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Hey, Survivor! How has toxic stress impacted your body, after narcissistic abuse? In this episode, I’m sharing 5 bodily responses to toxic stress. Healing is a journey. And understanding how toxic stress affects your body is a powerful step forward. If you, or someone you know, need help understanding how narcissistic abuse affects you physically, …
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This episode is the first in a series about adoption. I interviewed Sherry Cates, who was adopted at birth, all about how the Lord worked in her story. We talked about how the goodness of the Lord and the love of her adoptive family allowed her to have an identity outside of adoption and to grow in confidence. She is such a gem and I cannot wait fo…
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Hey, Survivor! What are you struggling with most, when it comes to healing from trauma? In this episode, I’m offering 3 tips to start your healing journey, after a breathing exercise. Healing is not a destination or a race. And the path isn’t linear. So, keep moving forward and treat yourself well. If you, or someone you know, need help healing aft…
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In this episode, I am answers some questions about marriage and what it looks like to nurture marriage while raising kids. I talk about how my husband and I focus on dating with four young kids and what it looks like to continue to pursue each other. Purchase Scripture Journals here: https://amzn.to/3RhVw8f https://amzn.to/3Xe1hYA…
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Hey, Survivor! How do you deal with narcissistic city and town government officials? In this episode, I’m sharing 3 strategies, after we self-regulate. Leaders should look out for their people. And you have to look out for your health and wellbeing, even as an engaged citizen. If you, or someone you know, need help navigating toxic leadership, this…
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In this episode, Mikyhla has an incredible conversation with Rachel Hendrick about the faithfulness of the Lord. Rachel shares a story about how the Lord answered some prayers for wisdom in a way that was amazing and unexpected! About our guest: Rachel Hendrick is a modern watercolor artist inspired by the big and bold truths found in the Bible and…
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Hey, Survivor! What do you do when someone asks you to set aside your differences with the narcissist? In this episode, I’ll offer 10 solutions, after we calm our bodies and brains. You should consider the source of the request; and prioritize your well-being. Someone who’s fighting the discomfort of toxic relationship dynamics and struggles to set…
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Hey, Survivor! What do you say to someone who tries to invalidate your experience with a narcissist? In this episode, I’ll share 3, after we self-regulate. You may decide that it’s not worth addressing, and that’s okay too. Ultimately, you have to determine what’s best for your health and wellbeing. Mental health matters; and your peace of mind is …
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Hey, Survivor! How do you respond, when others can’t see the red flags in the narcissist’s behavior? After we self-regulate, I’ll share 3 strategies for unmasking narcissism around you. Whether you’re a whistleblower or a target (aka a source of narcissistic supply), identifying and confronting narcissistic behavior can be frustrating. Self-regulat…
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Hey, Survivor! How have you experienced disorder in the court, when it comes to narcissistic abuse? We’ll self-regulate, then I’ll share 2 primary tactics the narcissist uses in legal battles, along with some tactical tips. Navigating narcissistic and toxic relationship dynamics during legal proceedings can lead to chronic stress and compromise you…
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Hey, Survivor! Are you considering calling out the narcissist? Let’s breathe together to self-regulate, then I’ll share 6 tips to help you out. Calling out narcissistic and toxic individuals can be stressful and compromise your health. And, in some cases, it can be dangerous. So, you should carefully consider how essential this is for you to heal. …
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Hey, Survivor! Has the narcissist gone too far with you? Let’s self-regulate, then talk about 3 manipulative tactics they use on you and others. When it comes to the brain, the body, trauma, and relationships, everything is connected. So, self-care, community, and boundaries are essential to your health and well-being. If you, or someone you know, …
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Hey, Survivor! Struggling to break free from a narcissistic or toxic group? After we self-regulate, I’ll share 5 healing tips to help you exit fearlessly. When it comes to dysfunctional relationships within groups, fear and past trauma can contribute to staying longer than you should. If you, or someone you know, needs help leaving a toxic group, t…
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Hey, Survivor! Are you being baited into a fight by the narcissist? Let’s self-regulate, then I’ll share 4 manipulative tactics they use to accomplish this. When dealing with toxic people, it’s important to identify and navigate these tactics, so you can prioritize your mental health and wellbeing, set boundaries, and pursue healthy relationships. …
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Hey, Survivor! Is the narcissist being HASTY towards you and others? After we breathe together, I’m going to break down 5 red flags you can’t afford to ignore. When dealing with toxic relationships, it helps to SLOW down for the sake of your mental, physical, and emotional health. And I’ll use these two acronyms to show you how. If you, or someone …
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Hey, Survivor! How much is your toxic relationship with a benign narcissist costing you? Although these types of narcissistic individuals are considered harmless, you still have to pay to play. We’ll dive into this, after a breathing exercise. Regardless of the relationship, counting the costs of continuing is a way that you can prioritize your hea…
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Hey, Survivor! What do you know about the power of proximity, when it comes to narcissistic abuse? After self-regulating, with a breathing exercise, we’ll talk about how to navigate the narcissist’s efforts to control and manipulate you. As always, I encourage you to prioritize your health, well-being and self care, as you move forward on your heal…
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Hey, Survivor! What do you do when you’re triggered, after narcissistic abuse? In this episode, we’ll self-regulate with a breathing exercise. Then we’ll dive into 3 healthy ways to navigate triggers, so you can move forward on your healing journey. The focus should be on you, your health and well-being, not the narcissist! If you, or someone you k…
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Hey, Survivor! How do you react when the narcissist faces justice? In this episode, I’ll guide you through a breathing exercise, and share 6 steps to healing, when the narcissist gets theirs. The key is to prioritize your health and wellbeing, and connect with like-minded individuals in your community. If you, or someone you know, needs healing hel…
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Hey, Survivor! How is the narcissist trying to silence you? This is happening in real-time, in my community, to a whistleblower who is helping to fill in details about Preston Lord’s murder. In this episode, I’ll help you self-regulate with a breathing exercise, and share a few silencing tactics that narcissists use. When you don’t disconnect from …
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Hey Survivor! You’re stressed, exhausted, at a loss for words, and feeling defeated. You think that the narcissist is winning and you’re wondering, “Where’s the justice?” If this is you, or someone you know, then this episode is a must-listen! I’m sharing 3 steps to self-care, when it seems like the narcissist is winning. These simple steps will he…
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Hey, Survivor! Have you considered how your healing journey is impacted, when the narcissist tries to manage perceptions? It’s triggering; and I’m seeing this play out in my community, as we work together to eradicate teen violence. In this episode, I’ll guide you through a breathing exercise, explain narcissistic perception management, and offer 4…
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Hey, Survivor! Do you think you might run into the narcissist, after you’ve gone no or low contact? It’s possible, and it happened to me…recently. In this episode, I’m sharing 5 tips to protect your mental health and boundaries when you run into the narcissist in your life. If you, or someone you know, need encouragement to prioritize their health …
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Hey, Survivor! Are you compromising your health and healing by communicating with the narcissist? Help is on the way! In this episode, I give you 5 reasons to stop communicating with the narcissist. If you, or someone you know, need encouragement to stop communicating with the narcissist, this episode is for you. Know who you're dealing with. Know …
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Hey, Survivor! Looking for ways to incorporate self-care on your healing journey, after narcissistic abuse? I’ve got you covered. In this episode, I’m covering 6 healthy lifestyle practices that you can do, or have someone arrange for you. If you, or someone you know, need some self-care tips, this episode is for you. Know who you're dealing with. …
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Hey, Survivor! Are you being threatened by the narcissist in your life? This is a textbook narcissistic tactic to gain, or regain control of a situation. I’m literally watching upstanders in my community go through this as they seek justice for Preston Lord. Truth is being exposed, darkness is coming to light, and narcissistic individuals are scram…
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Hey, Survivor! What do you know about ACEs, or Adverse Childhood Experiences? This trauma can lead to more health issues, later in life, if not addressed. I’m seeing this play out in my community, after the senseless fatal assault of 16-year-old Preston Lord. Teen violence has escalated; and there are some common threads among the perpetrators and …
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Hey, Survivor! Have you listened to the Katt Williams interview that aired this week? I did. And whether he intended to, or not, he exposed some narcissistic behaviors from his experience in the entertainment industry. He also dropped some gems that can help you to navigate toxic relationships. In this episode, I’m sharing 6 behaviors that Katt men…
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Hey, Survivor! Are you forced to pet the elephant in the room, in your narcissistic family? It’s hard, especially when you don’t have language to describe what has happened, or is happening, to you. Or you feel pressure to suck it up and keep forging ahead, through chaos and confusion. This episode offers healthy hacks, so you can stop swimming in …
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Hey, Survivor! Have you considered hiring a private investigator, after narcissistic abuse? It may sound extra; but it’s not. Actually, it can help to reveal the truth about who and what you’re dealing with. This episode offers several benefits of hiring a PI, so that you can focus on your health and wellbeing. Narcissists love to create chaos and …
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Hey, Survivor! Are you ready to tackle some myths about trauma? At one point or another, we’ve all shamed and blamed ourselves for our body’s reaction to what has happened to us. So, this episode is dedicated to helping you better understand what has happened to you, so that you don’t assist the narcissist in your life in making you feel bad so the…
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