Three friends chatting at the bar exploring the different experiences of their guests. Every Thursday join Abz, Chris & Dean M.F Johnson. From music, comedy, relationships, to pop culture, politics and current events, everything is brought to the bar for analysis. While their perspectives are often amazing - take what you want from them but remember they may have had a couple of drinks. Twitter & Instagram: @MeetUsAtTheBarPod
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Welcome to another lock in ladies and gentlemen. This week Paris is sitting in for Dean. We’re sure you’ve seen it and we had to discuss it - Kanye West and his recent antics and whether we have any sympathy for the backlash he’s currently receiving for his recent T-shirt wearing antics. We also dip into the jar at the bar and find what the team ma…
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We're back at the bar for another week of drinking and fun. This week we're joined by friend of the bar Anna whilst we dissect some interesting and very bizarre stories but before we get there - let me ask you this... IF you were in a relationship for 3+ years and they did something grand to make you think "wow" - what would that grand gesture be? …
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#61 DO WOMEN COMPROMISE ON SMALL DICK FOR LOVE? (THE LOCK IN)
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We’re back at the bar this week for another lock in episode - usually it’s just the boys but this week Chris wasn’t available so friend of the bar Anna stepped in for him. As is customary with the lock in chats, it’s no hold barred opinions. After Queen Elizabeth II passing we had to discuss the funeral and what that meant for us and for the histor…
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#60 "CO-PARENTING, IS IT REALLY THAT HARD?"
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This week we're joined by friends of the bar Molly and Aaron. Aaron has a successful platform called "raising boys 2 men" which highlights all of the difficulties around being a single parent and how to successfully co-parent. With our own Chris being a single parent we thought it was only right to have Aaron on along with Molly who is a single mum…
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#59 ANDREW TATE: THE ULTIMATE ROLE MODEL?
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Bank holiday weekend is over, carnival is over… Makes no difference to us because we didn’t go much to Chris’ disappointment and anger! Did you head to carnival this year? - there was some negativity in the media this year as there is every year surrounding carnival when in fact it’s a tiny percentage of the event. Hear how we can change this perce…
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#58 DMT & AYAHUASCA: I ENTERED A NEW DIMENSION AND FOUND HEALING
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This week we’re joined by friend of the bar Gen! Gen shares some amazing stories of her experiences with DMT and Ayahuasca. Ayahuasca is a South American psychoactive and entheogenic brewed drink traditionally used both socially and as ceremonial spiritual medicine among the indigenous peoples of the Amazon basin. Peru was the destination for this …
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This week we welcome friends of the bar Jasmine and Carol. Strap in as the pair give us some of their secrets from being a professional bodyguard and training in Poland for hours on end with firearms. This episode is not one to be missed as we introduce our new segment “Drunk Dial” where we ask the guests to call someone in their and we give them i…
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#56 MURAD MERALI & THE PERFECT APOLOGY!
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Murad Merali must have woken up this week in complete horror - his secret past has been exposed for the world to see. Trending #1 in the UK on Twitter within a few hours and trending #2 worldwide. For those who do not know Murad is a social commentator who rose to prominence commentating on reality tv - namely Love Island and with this grew his pop…
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#55 “HOW DEATH TURNED INTO INSPIRATION FOR ME”
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If you haven’t heard of him already, we’d like to introduce you to 5yffe who joins us at the bar this week. An up and coming artist with extraordinary penmanship and style - we talk through the come up, how he got into writing for others before stepping inside the booth himself. A moving story about losing someone close to him that drove his desire…
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#54 WOULD YOU LIE FOR ME TO PROTECT MY FREEDOM?!
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As three close friends it would be insane not to know when your friends would lie for you or not right?! We have never spoken about this so we have no idea whether we would lie to protect each other or keep each other out of relationship problems!! There are some times in life where you need a friend to back something you have done but what is too …
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#53 THINGS THAT MADE ME QUESTION MY BLACKNESS!
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Have you ever paused and thought “all black people like this, surely I have to like it too?” Subliminally you’ve questioned your blackness. From things as small as supermalt to the partners you get with, anything may make you question it or perhaps have you wondering what others think of your blackness. We discuss the things that have made us quest…
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#52 SPONTANEOUSLY GOT MY BUM LICKED, HAVE YOU?
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Before you go any further, head to bdsmtest.org - do the test at the same time as listening to this episode. We're joined by friends of the bar Sara and Adam for another unfiltered conversation about EVERYTHING!! Adam and Sara have both lived abroad for years so share their experiences and differences with living in the UK and how that may have aff…
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#51 9 THINGS YOU SHOULD NOT COMPROMISE ON IN A RELATIONSHIP!
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Now this may seem like an easy topic to discuss but actually when you are in the thick of the talking stage - lust, fantasy, desire, great chat has taken over your mind and you put your basic needs to one side for that time... UNTIL... you are deeper into the situation and realise there are some things about the other person that do not work with y…
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She's A 10 But … or He's A 10 But …, What a game this is! In this weeks episode we find ourselves playing 'The Rating Game', which is spreading like fire across TikTok and Twitter. We also continue the conversation on the epidemic sweeping across the gym world where men are being 'called out' for alleged inappropriate behavior towards women trainin…
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Hands up if you’re a single man… Hands up if you’re a single man that’s been accused of having a load of girls on the go just because you’re single… Hands up if you’re a woman that’s levelled that accusation at a man 👀… That’s just one of the myths we feel single men are tarnished with. We decided we’d discuss this plus some other myths that get th…
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This weeks episode we’re joined by Kali who became an overnight TikTok personality for recommending women shouldn’t withhold sex on a first date 👀 We got the chance to sit down with her to discuss some of her crazy dating stories and escapades - we also touch on relationships with male figures and how that can have an impact on your life. Topics: -…
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#47 "ASK ABOUT MY HEIGHT, I'LL ASK YOU ABOUT YOUR WEIGHT!"
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Dean is back from ANOTHER period of annual leave - he brings us up to speed on all things Coachella and what it's really like. Some of the best and worst performers, as well as al of the weird things. There has been a lot of talk online recently about women being approached in gyms so we break down what is the right and wrong thing to do if you wan…
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This week we begin by speaking to friend of the bar Luke - a business owner and former Muay Thai fighter - Luke has lived through the experience of depression for various reasons which led to an attempt to take his own life. We're fortunate enough to have him on to hear his story and spread his message of awareness towards mental health and how to …
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#45 WHAT IS THE CHEESEBURGER OF SEX POSITIONS?
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Fellas - you're about to sleep with a lady for the first time pretty early doors and she pulls out a condom on you. What are you thinking and doing? Does it put you off or do you go through with the deed? - Listen to what Twitter is saying on this! We discuss what we would do as well as go through all of the top voted sex positions in the UK and mu…
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#44 "WE'RE STRIPPERS BUT YOU CAN'T F**K US!"
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In all honesty, we have been waiting a while for this one to come around because we knew it would be fun! We're joined by Lauren who is stripper in Shoreditch - she gives us the lowdown on what it is like being a stripper - the good, the bad, the funny. We ask all those bizarre questions like "What is the stripper etiquette amongst the dancers?" Th…
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Topic: We brought 9 signs HE’S cheating on you so it’s only right we bring balance to the chaos and discuss 9 signs she’s cheating on you. Of course, we’re not women so we have friends of the bar Kim and Shannon with us who spill the tea on some of their history and people they know that have been in sketchy situations. If you’ve got a girlfriend -…
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#42 WOULD YOU BITCHSLAP CHRIS LIKE WILL SMITH DID?
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With the passing of the 2022 Oscars this weekend there is only one thing that ‘broke the internet’ and is the main topic at the bar for the guys this episode. Will Smith storming the stage of the Oscars and hitting Chris Rock in the face after the comedian made a joke about his wife Jada Pinkett Smith. Joined by friends of the bar Chloe and Paris w…
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Well it seems as though summer is here - we can record this with the bar doors open and the sun shining through. We had to get involved with the chat circulating on the net recently about the occupations you wouldn't want to date? - are there any occupations you would run a million miles from? Perhaps you wouldn't to date a professional athlete or …
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#40 EMPOWERING WOMEN AND AN ENTREPRENEURS MINDSET
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With International Women's day just passing we thought it was only right to bring on a female who is making waves within the industry - managing some of the biggest influencers, models such as Demi Rose and all round talent. At 24 Hannah Holland built her business HLD Group from the ground up and some huge names - she joins us at the bar to talk th…
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Chris kicks off this week by letting us know he’s been a bad friend, finding excuses for not showing up to his friends sons birthday which leads us to another scenario where someone has been offended for not being invited to one - where do you stand on this? We also discuss the best way of communicating a break up. Are you big enough to do it face …
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#38 “DON’T SH!T WHILE I’M IN THE SHOWER!”
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We’re joined by amazing friends of the bar Amber & Tash for a foolish episode - it’s been a while since we’ve had a casual bar chat so we decided to lighten the mood from recent episodes. Hear everything from the weird to the wonderful - the ladies entered the DJ world so they share a few great stories as well as how long they think their partners …
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Everyone thinks they are the bee knees in bed don’t they? Sorry to break the news but not everyone can be great in bed! But don’t worry ladies, we’ve got you… here are the top tips on what to stop doing in bed if you want to keep your man satisfied. We discuss the top things that can turn a hot and steamy night to a damp, stressful and an extremely…
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We’re joined by the lovely Michelle, a social media influencer who is ready to let her hair down (figuratively speaking - she had her hair tied up for this one), let the drinks flow and speak her truth! Body dysmorphia is something that can affect anyone but what sort of impact does this have on an influencer who already has pressure to look a cert…
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Topic: This episode says it all in the title - we discuss the 9 most common signs you need to look for if you think your man is cheating on you OR depending on how you see it things you need to avoid doing so she doesn’t catch you cheating! We’re here to help everyone! Tune in to hear the weird and the sneaky - let us know if you have done some of …
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#34 NEW BEGINNINGS: LOSING PARENTS, SIGNING TO A LABEL & COSMETIC SURGERY
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Topic: We know a lot of you haven't seen a lot of Osh since My Ye and his subsequent singles! However we got to sit down with the man himself for his first real in depth chat since splitting with his label and going solo. We get in depth insight into the life before and after you get signed, friends and things he would do differently if he could re…
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Have you ever had to stalk your ex’s socials to see what they’re up to? Surely everyone has done that no? This week whilst Dean is out, Paris joins us at the bar for an interesting episode discussing questions submitted by listeners to see how we’d deal with them! We discuss the biggest heart breaks and guys being stuck in the “dark place” after de…
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#32 "WOMEN SHOULD STILL SUBMIT TO THEIR MEN!"
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2022 We're here!!! It's been a while but we're back with the first episode of the year! We open proceedings with friends of the bar Lyne Nsongo and Lou - who were both born in Europe and moved to the UK in their adult life so have very different perspectives. Being relatively traditional Lyne thinks women should still submit to their men (in the ri…
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#31 END OF YEAR MADNESS - A BRIGHT FUTURE, TRANS & LOVELESS CHILDREN
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Just as people said at the beginning of lockdown #1 back in 2020 “strap in people, this is going to be a bumpy ride!” It’s the last episode of 2021 and what a year it’s been for us at MUATB. This episode we’re joined by friend of the bar Paris where we all let our hair down, drinks flow and see where the conversation goes. It ends up being quite a …
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This week we’re joined by amazing friend of the bar Mena - this is one not to be missed. Mena runs L8 Bloomers and ran the live show with us and she didn’t hold back when telling us her story showing her vulnerabilities. Depression isn’t something people talk about freely but she describes the effect it had on her and how she’s dealt with it! We al…
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#29 DOES WINNING AT ALL COSTS OUTWEIGH A PERSONS FEELINGS?
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Ay it's Deans birthday week! Do you care whether you get a lot of birthday love or are you unbothered like Dean? Some people get caught up on whether people say happy birthday and post them on social media. If a friend doesn't say happy birthday, does that mean they don't love you? We discuss Will Smiths book launch and Willow Smith making him real…
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#28 "MY FRIENDS SHOULD KNOW THEIR PLACE IN OUR FRIENDSHIP!"
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Another week, another squabble! Dean seems to believe Chris isn't as forthcoming with information on his whereabouts with his friends which begs the question - If a guy is secretive with his friends, is that a red flag for potential suitors? This turns into a combative affair and we'd love to hear your thoughts on this too. We also discuss how ofte…
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Have you ever wondered what it would be like to live the life of a female drug dealer? - not in a gang or work for anyone else. This week we sat down with friend of the bar Lois who actually went to college with Abs but once they left, their lives went into different directions. Lois decided to leave college, get a diploma and then somehow got wrap…
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#26 SHOULD WE FEAR METAVERSE/FACEBOOK?!
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Now it's not very often Abs goes back on something he says - this may be the first time in history actually but ladies and gentleman, we have it. He adjusts a comment from the previous episode. You have to tune in to hear what turns out to be a pretty heated discussed! We also discuss Facebook changing their name to Meta and whether this is just a …
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#25 CHAPPELLE PROVES WE'RE TOO SENSITIVE
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Cancel Dave Chappelle? - Are we sure we know what we're saying before we say it? This week we’re joined by friend of the bar Morf who is an amazing presenter & content creator and in light of the recent backlash of Dave Chappelle's Netflix special - The Closer we decided to talk over things that the world may be too sensitive about. Whether that's …
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Now, now now!! Wtf happened to you??? You missed our first live event?! SHAME ON YOU! Luckily for you it was still on the tip of our tongues on this episode as this was the very next day. We chop up the best bits from the live show. The truths the audience spoke and where they disagreed with us. What we thought made us adults, the taboo conversatio…
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The boys are back at the bar and this time joined by friends Elodie and Maria who are both friends of the bar and both came to this country later in life after growing up in France and Bulgaria respectively. They share all of their experiences with us, from their first time in London and having to watch Top Boy to be able to understand the London l…
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If you're in the UK (London especially) you know how crazy this "petrol crisis" has been. It has sent certain people into a frenzy, panic buying - the tissue saga all over again! Now when you do actually need petrol and the garages are like pandemonium - absolute anarchy, at what point do you start beefing? One of us got into a fight over petrol!! …
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Now this is something you never hear right?! You’re probably more used to hearing women say they don’t need men… We discuss whether we think they mean they don’t need us financially or emotionally (or for sex). Ladies, please let us know, we’d love to understand. We discuss how we’ll raise the topic of sex with our children in this new age where ev…
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Have you ever asked yourself about the biggest mistakes you have made in your life? Do you regret them and would you change them? We discuss some of the mistakes we've made in life and whether we would go back and change them or let them play out. We also discuss women having secret sexual desires that they hide from their partners and a true life …
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#19 KANYE DONDA vs DRAKE CLB: THE TRUTH
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They made us wait but they're both finally here - DONDA & CLB. After months of speculation and delays we're all able to enjoy both pieces of work. With Abs away, Dean and Chris are joined by friends of the are Lloyd - an A&R for a major record label and DJ/Producer CJ Beatz also known as Wide Awake Of course we had to air our opinions on both album…
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The boys are back at the bar and after a heavy weekend, this weeks episode is more chilled - or it was supposed to be! We discuss whether high potential athletes should be having heavy nights out drinking and the impact on their careers. With Dell and Sonya Curry filing for divorce we tackle the issue of women bringing up old misdemeanours after th…
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Have you or any of your mates ever paid for sex? - one of us have! The boys are back at the bar and this time with friends of the bar MC and Melissa. Abs had a question for everyone and that's whether anyone had ever paid for sex and whether the girls would be put off if they found out the guy they are seeing used to pay for it. We also discuss the…
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The boys are back at the bar for another week of unfiltered madness! Pegging?! Ever heard of that? - yeah neither have we. Some of us recently heard the term pegging and it all comes out at the bar. Margs caused twitter to erupt this week by claiming he would let his friend join him in a threesome if his girlfriend really wanted one. We discuss how…
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Your favourite hosts are back at the bar for anther episode of unedited banter! Dean is still away on holiday in lovely Antigua - Abs and Chris are holding it down with friends of the bar Vinnette and Cee! After the last episode we needed to hear a woman’s perspective on whether a woman’s hoeness can be deleted or not! - Draya Michelle always seems…
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#14 DON'T SECRETLY MASTURBATE WHEN I'M AROUND!
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Your favourite hosts are back at the bar for anther episode of unedited banter! Whilst Dean is away on holiday in Antigua our friend Craig has stepped in to fill the void in this episode and his input on some wild topics. Abs really wants to know who secretly masturbates whilst in a relationship and living with their partner and whether women do it…
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