If we are willing, we can continue to develop more maturity, peace, intimacy with God, and the integration of our truest selves for the rest of our lives. Healing is not a one time event, but rather an ongoing process like peeling layers of an onion. Michael and Kristin open up a glimpse of what healing has looked like for each of us as individuals…

Kristin interviews Michelle Mays, a CSAT and betrayal trauma specialist whose attachment based approach to healing sheds light on the devastating and disorienting impact of sexual betrayal. In this 2 part episode, Michelle unpacks principles from new book The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Has Hurt You the Worst. She r…

Kristin interviews Michelle Mays, a CSAT and betrayal trauma specialist whose attachment based approach to healing sheds light on the devastating and disorienting impact of sexual betrayal. In this 2 part episode, Michelle unpacks principles from her new book The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Has Hurt You the Worst. S…

Sexual addiction and sexual betrayal trauma are both multidimensional and complex. As Christians, it can feel safer to blame the enemy for our experiences that are actually rooted in many other aspects of how God made us. True and lasting healing are available but we must implement recovery practices to heal the interconnected depths of our body, s…

Jen & Brenda are both beautiful, smart, successful professionals whose worlds turned upside down when they discovered sexual betrayal in their marriages. Not one area of their lives was untouched by this crisis. They both helped Kristin start Women in the Battle in 2016 and recorded this episode in the Fall of 2020. Brenda and Jen kept serving betr…

God created us for community and to be fully known. When it comes to unwanted sexual behavior, the healing journey always involves community. For men who struggle, Men in the Battle® fills that void. What is it like walking into a MIB group for the first time? What are the benefits of coming to a MIB Group? How valuable can it be? Why should I atte…

In this episode Kristin interviews Allan Katz & Michele Saffier, Certified Sex Addiction Therapists with a combined 35 years of experience. In order to experience lasting change and healing, sexual addicts must address their complex trauma; one of several root issues that drive their compulsive behaviors. Learn what is needed to heal from complex t…

What needs to happen in order to rebuild sexual integrity in a marriage which was broken by sexual betrayal? How can someone earn back the trust of their spouse after hurting them in this way? Listen in as. Michael interviews Jason Martinkus on his incredible book, Worthy of Her Trust. You can access the resources mentioned in this podcast at https…

Dr Lehman begins with a deeply moving story of one man with a sexual addiction who did NOT want Jesus to be with him as he entered a strip Club. Jesus’ response is just stunning. Learn more about Dr. Lehman’s pain processing pathway including why trauma isn’t just rooted in false beliefs about what has happened to us, but our feelings of isolation …

Christmas reminds us that JESUS came for us. He is Immanuel, God With Us! To celebrate his coming we're sharing the re-release of this episode from our archives. The Immanuel approach is a lifestyle of interactive connection with Jesus developed by board certified Psychiatrist, Dr. Karl Lehman. This can be used as a safe and effective inner healing…

After sexual secrets are exposed in a family, the “most wonderful time of the year” can feel like a nightmare. But there is hope. In this episode, Kristin interviews Coach Andrea Rogers who shares from her early betrayal trauma and holiday experiences. Hearing how Andrea honored her limits and advocated for herself and her kids through the crisis i…

What motivates someone to recover from addiction? What does it take to fall in love with the process of change and growth? Listen to part 2 of this series as Michael interviews the founder of Elevated Recovery on these and many other topics. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light on the deeper issues beneath porn addiction,…

How does porn addiction start and at what age? How aware is the addicted person about how many people he is hurting? What motivates someone to recover from addiction? Listen to this two part series as Michael interviews the founder of Elevated Recovery on these and many other topics. The Living Truth Podcast contains conversations that shed light o…

Kristin & Hope continue unpacking the three behaviors that people who maintain a secret sexual life employ to keep their partner in the dark. You'll better understand the conduct and impact of secret infidelity in intimate relationships. Hope provides insight into what is needed to not just find freedom from unwanted sexual behavior but to build ch…

Hope Ray is a CSAT and an APSATS trained therapist. In this episode, she explains the "stay shaming" that many partners experience when they choose to stay with their spouse after betrayal. Hope also describes the layers of Complex Partner Trauma & the impact of not only infidelity but the deceptive conditions that have been used to hide It. Downlo…

Heather's pornography addiction was just the tip of the iceberg. Below the surface lie self hatred, gender dysphoria, and more pain than she could process. When transitioning and living with a male identity did not soothe the ache in her soul, Heather was looking to Jesus for a love and healing that only He could offer. She reclaimed her female ide…

Heather's pornography addiction was just the tip of the iceberg. Below the surface lie self hatred, gender dysphoria, and more pain than she could process. When transitioning and living with a male identity did not soothe the ache in her soul, Heather was looking to Jesus for a love and healing that only He could offer. She reclaimed her female ide…

Betrayal shatters our hearts and lives. But there is TREMENDOUS hope that God can turn the darkest of seasons into a beautiful new life. Julie & Linda are Women in the Battle facilitators who are making a huge impact in binding up broken hearted betrayed partners. They are brave women who were once in the depths of despair due to their betrayal, ju…

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As a teen, Barb's son had a secret pornography addiction. As a pastors wife and homeschool mom, this discovery caused Barb to question her parenting skills, leaving her feeling empty and alone. She was shocked that this struggle could be happening in her home without her knowledge for so long and didn't know where to turn to for help. Her pain has …

Have you ever wondered why many men struggle to love? What is an emotionally undeveloped man and what causes this phenomenon? What are relational blind spots, and how does one overcome them? Listen in to part two as Michael interviews Dr. Eddie Capparuci on his book entitled "Why Men Struggle to Love: Overcoming Relational Blind Spots" where they d…

Have you ever wondered why many men struggle to love? What is an emotionally undeveloped man and what causes this phenomenon? What are relational blind spots, and how does one overcome them? Listen in as Michael interviews Dr. Eddie Capparuci on his book entitled "Why Men Struggle to Love: Overcoming Relational Blind Spots" where they discuss these…

How do you define the Family of Origin and how does this concept affect our behavior as an adult? What are the 5 key characteristics of nurturing which every child needs, but none had it delivered perfectly by our parents? Michael welcomes back Dr. Jake Porter to explore these incredibly important issues we all need to learn about as well as provid…

How do you define the Family of Origin and how does this concept affect our behavior as an adult? What are the 5 key characteristics of nurturing which every child needs, but none had it delivered perfectly by our parents? Michael welcomes back Dr. Jake Porter to explore these incredibly important issues we all need to learn about as well as provid…

What can you do when you pray and wait for change in your husband after sexual betrayal but he continues to act out, lie, or treat you with contempt and disregard? These situations are heartbreaking and yet you are not alone. Kim Petroni has been there too and now coaches betrayed partners, helping them walk in their God given identity and courageo…

Ever wonder what is the root cause of porn addiction and other unwanted sexual behavior? Not only can we identify root cause, but understand a model that is powerfully helpful in treating this issue. Michael interviews Dr. Eddie Capparucci, author of the book "Going Deeper - How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction." Listen in as Eddie des…

Boundaries are essential after sexual betrayal, but few of us know which boundaries to set and how to set them. In fact, many people believe that boundaries are mean. So we end up setting arbitrary boundaries that fall the first time they meet with resistance. In this episode Kristin interviews trauma-informed Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) …

In this fascinating podcast, Dr. Jake Porter of Daring Ventures defines "Trauma Triggers" and teaches on the 5 parts of the brain that are affected in the process. You can take advantage of Dr. Jake's resources by visiting daringventures.com, drjakeporter.com and go.daringventuresathome.com. Another exciting resource is Dr. Jake's Choose Connection…

Would you like to understand and identify one of the main root causes of problematic sexual behavior? Listen in as Michael unpacks this and more with Matt Wenger, the Clinical Director of Boulder Recovery. You can learn all about the resources Matt's ministry has to offer by visiting https://beginagaininstitute.com/boulder-recovery/. The Living Tru…

Kristin interviews Professional Life Coach Andrea Rogers about culturally compassionate care for ALL people who need support after unwanted sexual behavior or sexual betrayal. As a black woman, Andrea shares her experience entering the predominantly white recovery community. In this episode, you'll learn more about loving others well, especially wh…

God designed sexual intimacy as a beautiful celebration and seal of the covenant of marriage. Clearly the world, the porn industry, and the enemy have decimated this beautiful gift that when misused, causes so much pain and destruction. Dr. Juli Slattery is a Christian Psychologist who busts the manipulative use of scripture to enforce "duty sex" a…

The crisis that ensues after sexual secrets are uncovered in a marriage ALWAYS impacts the kids, regardless of their ages or how much detail they know. Kristin interviews Stacey Sadler, an APSATs certified Counselor who has personally endured the pain of parenting after betrayal. How do we help our kids through the aftermath of discovery and throug…

The crisis that ensues after sexual secrets are uncovered in a marriage ALWAYS impacts the kids, regardless of their ages or how much detail they know. Kristin interviews Stacey Sadler, an APSATs certified Counselor who has personally endured the pain of parenting after betrayal. How do we help our kids through the aftermath of discovery and throug…

Disconnection from the body, gut, & heart is a root issue in all addictions. This disconnection keeps betrayal trauma survivors stuck too. In this episode, Kristin interviews Carrie Holladay, a Somatic Mindfulness Coach specializing in betrayal trauma. She helps us understand WHY we disconnect from ourselves (it's a survival strategy). And, how to …

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In this second part of their "Fireside Chat", Michael & Darrell explore compelling topics like, "Once an addict, always an addict", "Brain science", and "The 5 phases of denial." For more information and the resources Darrell offers, visit https://newhope4si.com and https://protectingeve.com. The Living Truth Podcast is conversations that shed ligh…

Listen in as Michael interviews ministry leader and author Darrell Brazell about his journey from addiction to Recovery Ministry leader and Church Pastor. In this "Fireside Chat", Michael & Darrell explore multiple other topics like, "Why wouldn't a church want to approach the topic of unwanted sexual behavior in their church", "What's it like to b…

All destructive behaviors and unhealthy relational patterns are rooted in emotional pain that we don't know how to regulate. Marriage & Family Therapist and Professional Coach duo, Matthew & Joanna unpack the 4 step process used in Restoration Therapy. Learning to identify your core feelings and the repeat pain cycles we enter into with our spouse …

Michael, Kristin and Brian (Living Truth Staff) share stories of HOPE from men and women whose lives have been devastated by sexual addiction or sexual betrayal. Your recovery path may be long and require hard work and surrender but it does NOT need to be isolated and filled with shame. Listen in to learn more about how the right guidance and suppo…

Sexual Betrayal can be excruciating. There is hope, however, for the couples who find that pathway to become committed to growth and recovery. There is a way to navigate early Recovery that works. Michael interviews Carol Sheets, aka Carol the Coach, about navigating Couples Early Recovery and her groundbreaking process she calls "ERCEM." You can g…

God created us for community and to be fully known. When it comes to unwanted sexual behavior, the healing journey always involves community. For men who struggle, Men in the Battle® fills that void. What is it like walking into a MIB group for the first time? What are the benefits of coming to a MIB Group? How valuable can it be? Why should I atte…

Years after coming home from the gym and finding his wife lying on the floor having suffered three gunshot wounds, Davey Blackburn answers questions like “where is God in the midst of tragedy?” and “how would I ever have the strength to work through trauma like this?” Davey shares about his ministry “Nothing is Wasted”, and the resources they offer…

Bob & Connie fervently sought help for the crisis in their marriage brought on by his sexual addiction. The misguided advice they received actually enabled Bob's addiction & Connie's betrayal trauma to grow and fester. Their marriage suffered tremendous damage. But over time, with the right help, they've experienced a healing and restoration they l…

Kathy had done everything she could to salvage her marriage to Conrad but it collapsed, along with her faith. Several years later, through a delicate balance of hard work in recovery AND surrender to God, both Kathy and Conrad became ready for a new relationship built on truth and safety. Their story is filled with HOPE that God is still with us an…

In early recovery triggers can seem endless & extremely overwhelming. But this is not a hopeless, unending inevitability! Kristin interviews Clinton & Charity Muñoz about how they navigate triggers to build connection and intimacy in their marriage! Clinton & Charity are the founders of Restored 2 More. They help couple rebuild connection and refle…

How do you rebuild your marriage after sexual betrayal? The Intimacy Pyramid is a guide for couples to lay a new foundation and rebuild a relationship that thrives. The Raabsmiths have used the principles of the Intimacy Pyramid to build a strong, joy-filled marriage for themselves AND they share it with the couples they coach and counsel. You can …