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Ministry Without Hating It

Chad Garrison & Brenton Hill

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Is it possible to do ministry without hating it? We have a theory that it just might be. Join us in our pursuit to answer this question through the stories of ministry leaders who have been where you're at, and pick up the wisdom they've earned in the trenches of their own ministry journeys.
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Stop Hating Yourself

Stop Hating Yourself

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The world's first self-help podcast where the hosts help themselves while entertaining you! Send your favorite/most despised Affirmations or Some Other BS to us @stophatingcast and your hatemail to stophatingcast@gmail.com
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"Stop Hating Dating and Find Your Person is your go to resource for learning to confidently show up for yourself and interact in a way that’s authentic to you AND gets you the relationship you want. Each week Certified Life Coach Stacy Perry will share wisdom from her and her client’s dating experiences—along with mind hacks, tools, and techniques from life coaching, neuroscience, and cognitive psychology. If you’re ready to learn the skills and mindsets to make dating and finding your perso ...
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How do you keep the “why” of ministry at the forefront of your ministry? Sometimes it takes a healthy dose of perspective of another leader’s reality. This episode with NextGen Leaders, Zach & Caitlin Thomas, may be one of those moments. In this interview they share how they’ve been able to see fruit in their inner city student ministries, the gosp…
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How does a failed hunting trip transform the way you minister to others? In this episode our guest, Pastor Marty Schminkey, pulls no punches in sharing how God has used moments like these to change the trajectory of his heart, and ultimately the way he leads others. With authenticity, Marty unpacks how the way he serves, loves and bleeds with other…
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Do you ever feel unqualified, or under-equipped as a leader? Well good news, you're not alone! In this episode Pastor and Church Planter, Nina Sims, shares with us how her motto of "Just Show Up" is a daily exercise in courage and confidence in the belief that God placing you in leadership was not an accident. And as you show up, God will too. Reso…
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It’s time for a Soul Check, an open discussion with ministry leaders and mental health specialists focused on reinforcing the most important part of you–your soul! In this episode we get Part 2 of our discussion with our friend, Robby Booth, breaking down the practicalities of Healing and Strengthening the Ministry Leader’s soul through the Lord’s …
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Today we unbox a new episode type we’re adding to the MWH mix, Soul Check. These episodes will be an open discussion with ministry leaders and mental health specialists focused on reinforcing the most important part of you–your soul! In this episode we get Part 1 of our discussion with our friend, Robby Booth, breaking down the practicalities of He…
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Jesus cares more about who I am, than what I do. Pastor and Foursquare Leader, Molly DuQue, shares with us that realizing this truth starts with being honest with yourself. In this episode, Molly unpacks how growing in her self-awareness has shifted ministry to simply “living out the work that Jesus is doing in me,” and how that has made all the di…
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When you define ministry, is the first thing you think of, “your life”? It is for this episode’s guest, Pastor and Missions Worker, Tim Wimberly. But Tim’s response doesn’t come from an overly spiritual place, but rather from witnessing first hand God’s faithfulness through 38+ years of a life given to ministry. Tim unpacks how he’s been able to ke…
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Have we become professional Christians, abiding in church-ianity? We unpack what this means with our guest, Pastor Andy Sloan. With honesty and humor, Andy shares how he’s learned [the hard way] that being radically on mission is simpler than we may recognize, the practicalities of living out calling, and also what he considers to be his favorite s…
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Do I need to step back from ministry, or is it an opportunity to pull myself up by the bootstraps and keep going? In this episode, Pastor Bill Campbell shares how growing with intentionality in self-awareness has helped him distinguish between the two in the course of his decades in ministry. It’s a vulnerable conversation about learning from your …
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Today we’re playing with a metaphor for you finding your person. You are the heroine in this SciFi movie and get your guy! I’ll show you the eight ways you’d show up as the heroine for yourself and your future person. And the seven things you don’t need to do. LOVED THE PODCAST AND WANT MORE: Feeling confused by someone you’re dating right now? Qui…
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Have you ever asked yourself, “Why am I still single?” I know I did. And I asked myself a lot of other messed up questions that my brain went and gave me a zillion answers for that made me feel terrible. We’re talking about attachment styles and how to move from insecure attachment styles to a more secure attachment style. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE…
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What’s the biggest obstacle a leader will face within ministry? Recognizing that it’s, “Not about you.” In this episode, Pastor Suzie Genin gets real (and has fun) with her journey of learning humility the hard way, becoming equipped as you equip others, and seeing every invited opportunity to minister as sacred…and also calling out Chad’s question…
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Ever really ponder what the heck is the difference between love and romantic love? Why we fall in or and out of love? What makes us feel loved? Well let’s ponder it together today in this episode! WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS WEEK’S EPISODE: Where our feelings of love really come from Why it is actually possible to feel love for someone we hardly know…
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Have you ever asked yourself, “Why am I still single?” I know I did. And I asked myself a lot of other messed up questions that my brain went and gave me a zillion answers for that made me feel terrible. In today’s episode you’ll learn to spot these questions and turn them around in a way that will gets you answers that actually help you find your …
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Lessons in love, dating and finding our person are all around us! In today’s episode I’m sharing insights from films at this year’s Sundance Film Festival: No matter how confident, successful, rich, secure, brilliant, or beautiful you are - we all get anxious and nervous sometimes Take the risk to be you - you have to show yourself so your person c…
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Have you ever been getting ready for a first date or on your way to a first date and thought to yourself, “Bet this will be another waste of my time.” Or, “Blech, I’m so not in the mood for this.” Or maybe the opposite, “This better be the one - I can’t take it anymore! Where are they???” Or maybe you’re you think, “I’m probably just going to get l…
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New Year, New Vision--or is it? Executive Coach and Pastor, Gary Dunahoo, kicks off Season 3 by positing the question, "What if we could be more present today, trusting that God is going to lead us forward tomorrow?" Through his own experiences and learned wisdom, Gary unpacks practically, what it means to be a leader who stewards all they've been …
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You know how it’s so fun to dream of finding your partner and sharing our life, but then when it comes down to actually doing the things, you can feel unmotivated or scared or doubtful and put it off? In today’s episode I’m giving you a couple great reminders on how to think about when your resolutions or dating feels off to an imperfect start this…
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Happy New Year! No matter if you have new years resolutions or not - this episode is for you to get crystal clear about what you like, want you want, and why you do! If you want more of what you want and like in the New Year - start listening now! :) MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Three Fat Guys Winery Code Names Game NYT Connections Game Ep 22 - Belie…
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What if your motto for dating and finding love in the New Year was DETERMINED? Well, determined is my word for 2024 and in today’s podcast we’re talking about why you might want rock some determination this year when it comes to finding your person! LOVED THE PODCAST AND WANT MORE: Feeling confused by someone you’re dating right now? Quickly pinpoi…
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Just like dating, the holidays can bring up ALL kinds of feelings for us! No matter if the holidays have you feeling all merry and bright, or frightful, or anxious, or sad, or guilty…or some uncomfortable swirl of these emotions…this episode is my gift to you! 😘🎁 The same keys to navigating the holidays, will also serve you dating, and in your futu…
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We get so much messaging on social media about red flags! Focusing on red flags can make dating feel very scary for some of us and cause us to second guess ourselves! So today we’re going to talk about how red flags are personal to you - they're about what you want and don’t want in your relationship. And the top skills to focus on instead. :) LINK…
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Ministry as an individual is one thing, but ministry as a couple is another level. In our stacked Season Two finale, we add Lindsay Garrison, and Dustin and Joanna Black to the ongoing conversation of navigating ministry with your spouse. Together, we unpack the hard earned wisdom gained in clarifying spouse vs. ministry roles, ministry expectation…
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Does your brain tell you it shouldn’t be this hard and is taking too long? And the fact that it is this hard, must mean there is something terribly wrong with the state of dating and/or you. Yah, that was me too. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS WEEK’S EPISODE: Why it makes sense that we think dating is too hard and takes too long How the experience of da…
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Do you just not feel your best right now and are “weighting” until you drop a couple pounds before you put yourself out there and date? Wanting to wait until you feel fitter is one of the top reasons woman aren’t dating even though they really want a great partner to share life with. In today’s episode we’re going to explore why so many of us feel …
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Want to be able to better handle the challenges of dating, feel more connected to yourself, be able to self regulate and show up authentically with your future partner? This episode is for you! WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS WEEK’S EPISODE: 8 reasons why you want to be an emotions rockstar! How rocking all our emotions is a key to living our best lives …
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Do you have thoughts about your old relationships pop into your head all the time and think you’re doomed to repeat the past? Do you think because you’ve never had a thriving amazing relationship, or any relationships, that means you never will? Me too, I had lots of these thoughts. Today I’m going to show you a way to start shifting your thinking …
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When we allow ministry to become task driven, one of the easiest things to lose sight of is the creative expression that is inherent to our Creator. In this episode, we sit down for a fun conversation with minister and FMP Director, Bob Hunt. Bob unpacks for us the importance of creativity within ministry, how it affects everyone involved in the cr…
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Who doesn’t want more confidence? In todays episode we are talking about how to think about and how to dial it up! WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS WEEK’S EPISODE: The three key parts of you and how they can work together to build your self confidence Why its important to celebrate your wins Four specific areas to focus on to ramp up your confidence LOVED…
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Do you have your height preferences set at six feet or taller? If you do, you gotta listen to this episode and learn about how keeping your dating parameters at six feet or taller impacts your dating pool. The stats will definitely surprise you! WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: Different thoughts that may be influencing your height preferences Wa…
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I used to get frustrated with the back and forth messaging on the apps that seemed to never end. So today, we’re tackling how to get more first dates from the apps by moving from messaging to real life faster and easier. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: 20 fun playful messages to send to move off the apps on onto your first date! How to set your …
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There is no one size fits all when it comes to dating, diets, or life in general. You know yourself and what feels good to you more than anyone else. In today’s episode we’re taking a playful look at what dating and diets have in common. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: How creating your own dating rules/protocol can build self trust How some dat…
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How do you achieve success in ministry? Become a servant to all. In this episode, Pastor Kimberly Dirmann recounts how God has moved her from a perfectionist people-pleaser focused on outcomes, to recognizing success in simply doing what God says, and not holding on too long. Kimberly also unpacks what cultivating love for people (even difficult on…
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Are you feeling preoccupied and fixated crushing on someone who’s not available? Or a friend you’re scared to tell you have feelings for them? Or someone you went on a couple dates with but still fantasize about? Today’s episode is for you! WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: How your feelings can help you get crystal clear about what you relationsh…
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In today’s episode we are diving into people pleasing and the subtle, and not so subtle, it shows up in your dating life. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: What is people people pleasing Why we do it The many different ways it may be showing up in your dating life How can get in the way of finding your person Actionable tools and exercises to dial…
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It can feel really discouraging when you’re on a date, they ask you out for another date, just to never hear from them again. Or they text you after to apologize and cancel the date. Or to find out someone lied on their profile and they’re actually have four kids and are in the middle of a heated divorce. And they are far from being ready to be in …
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Conflict within relationship is unavoidable, but healthy resolution doesn’t come naturally. In this BONUS! episode, Pastor, Chaplain and Therapist, Robby Booth, returns for an extended conversation on pursuing healthy conflict resolution within the relationships every leader holds, and unpacks learned wisdom in seeing relationships strengthened on …
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When I was dating, I had SO MANY unuseful thoughts about me, my body, my city, and the unlikely chance of me being able to find my person. I bet you do too. One of the most important skills for dating and finding your person is learning to stop believing e v e r y t h o u g h t you have and start deciding on purpose what you want to believe. Believ…
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You’re excited to find your person, but those sneaky “what ifs” are always popping up in your head. What if I never find my person. What if it doesn’t happen for me. What if I am too much or not enough. If you’re dating, you’ve had some of these thoughts. So today we’re diving into self doubt, why it comes up for us while we’re dating, how to maste…
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It’s the most important ministry within the church, and yet it’s oftentimes the most overlooked. In this episode we sit down for a conversation with Pastor and NextGen Denominational Leader, Tami Jones, on ministry to the Next Generation (NextGen). Tami unpacks for us trends in NextGen Ministry, best practices for NextGen Leaders, wisdom in leading…
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If you’re considering exploring a friends with benefits relationship while you look for your forever person, or if you’re already in one, this episode is for you! WHAT YOU”LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: Six questions to ask yourself to gain clarity around if having a friends with benefits will serve your dating experience. A client example of how to int…
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Feeling lonely feels crappy. And a lot of us have feelings of loneliness come up for us, especially when we’re dating and wanting to find our person. I sure did! In this episode we’re talking about why we feel lonely and how we can feel less lonely as we are looking to find our person to share life with. WHAT YOUR LEARN IN THIS EPISODE: Five tools/…
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Ready to learn proven strategies for dialing down the perfectionist voice in your head? This episode is for you! We’re going over four tools you can implement immediately to tame and manage that perfectionist voice that blocks you from finding your person! MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Big Magic: Creative Living Beyond Fear, by Elizabeth Gilbert Self-…
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We’re looking at ALL the ways perfectionism is talking to you in your head, and blocking you from dating and finding your person. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE How perfectionism has you totally dissatisfied with the current state of dating How it gets you in the compare and despair loop How it has you putting off dating or taking breaks from da…
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Our ministries are an overflow of our relationships. In this episode Pastor, Chaplain and Therapist , Robby Booth, unpacks the wisdom he's gained in his over 80,000 hours of counseling with ministry leaders and couples. We discuss combatting the false beliefs that hurt relationships, healthy ministry/relationship priorities and practical steps we c…
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Did you know you can create boundaries simply because you want to have as much as possible of what you want in your life? Comfort. Peace. Serenity. Safety. Closeness. Calmness. You can make sure you are taken care of instead of leaving it up to other people in your life. You can have boundaries to create whatever you prefer for yourself simply beca…
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In this fun quick episode I’m giving you my top 10 pieces of dating advice. These 10 things are what 99% most of my clients are shifting and evolving for themselves. Curious which ones you can focus on shifting and evolving of yourself? Have a listen and let me know! :) WHAT YOU’LL LEARN FROM THIS EPISODE: The eight things you need to start doing t…
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What if you trusted YOURSELF to treat YOURSELF like a best friend even when you messed up or did something embarrassing? When you did something cringe worthy, instead of beating yourself up in our head and tearing yourself down - you were kind and loving to yourself like you’d be to a kid? I bet you’d take a lot more risks dating and have a better …
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Your future self is where you want to be - sharing your fabulous life with YOUR person. And guess what - she’s got SO much she wants to tell you. WHAT YOU’LL LEARN FROM THIS EPISODE: How to tap into the wisdom of your future self Specific questions to ask her How building your relationship with your future self can improve your relationship with yo…
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If you’re not dating, taking a break from dating, or hating dating because all those terrible crappy uncomfortable feelings dating brings up in us - this episode is for you! WHAT YOU’LL LEARN FROM THIS EPISODE: How avoiding, resisting and reacting to our feelings causes us more problems than the feelings themselves The oh-so common ways we avoid, r…
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