Do you ever feel like you're going through the motions, but not quite sure why? Feeling lost about what truly matters to you? This episode is all about uncovering your Core Desired Feelings (CDFs) - the emotional states YOU crave most in life. These are unique and special to you, not a one-size-fits-all list. In this episode we discuss: What are Co…

Do you ever feel like you're not good enough unless...You achieve that next promotion? You hit a certain number on the scale? Someone finally "likes" your latest post? We all have those nagging voices that whisper limitations. In this episode we’re exploring the concept of conditions of worth - those invisible rules set for ourselves that dictate o…

Ever feel like you "need" that new gadget everyone seems to have? Do you find yourself endlessly scrolling through social media, bombarded by friends' perfect vacations and ideal lives? You might be experiencing mimetic desire, the powerful urge to want what others want. In this episode we unpack the psychology of mimetic desire, its impact on our …

Are you in a cycle of starting and stopping too many things? Frustrated that progress feels slow and motivation fades? What if the secret to achieving your goals wasn't about grand gestures, but about tiny, consistent actions? In this episode we’re exploring the often-underestimated power of consistency. If you’re ready to stay on track and finally…

Have you ever made a decision you still regret to this day? Do you constantly worry about making the "wrong" choice? Don’t worry, you're not alone. In this episode, we’re discussing regret aversion: why we fear making the wrong choice and how it impacts our decisions. If you’re ready to overcome regret, make decisions with confidence and live more …

Feeling constantly pulled towards notifications, social media scrolling endlessly, or maybe that afternoon sugar crash just won't quit? These could all be signs of a dopamine overload. In this episode, we'll explore the science behind dopamine, the brain's feel-good chemical, and how excessive stimulation can disrupt our focus, happiness, and overa…

Have you ever felt stuck in a loop? Maybe a negative thought pattern keeps replaying, or an old habit keeps rearing its head? Well, guess what? The answer might lie in the subconscious mind, a powerful force shaping our lives often without our awareness. Whether you want to boost your confidence, conquer a fear, or simply attract more positivity, t…

How often do you find yourself second-guessing your actions based on what others might think? Do you silence your voice or hold back from pursuing your passions due to the fear of being judged? Is the constant pressure to present a perfect image taking a toll on your mental well-being? If you answered yes, you're not alone. Today we’re exploring th…

Feeling stuck in autopilot? Do you ever wonder if you're truly making the choices that will lead you to a fulfilling life? In this episode, we explore the incredible power of choice and equip you with practical tools to make decisions with confidence and clarity. Whether you're looking to improve your career path, navigate personal relationships, o…

Have you ever received praise for your work but convinced yourself it was just a fluke? Ever felt like a fraud, even though you were achieving success? Or maybe you constantly compare yourself to others, feeling like they're somehow more qualified than you? These are just a few signs of imposter syndrome, a psychological phenomenon that can affect …

In this episode we unpack the complexities of "Eldest Daughter Syndrome" and explore the unique challenges and expectations placed on the firstborn daughters. Discover the signs and symptoms, from perfectionism to struggles with expressing emotions, tied to the birth order theory proposed by Alfred Adler. The episode offers practical coping strateg…

Ever feel like someone uses "I don't know how" as a superpower to avoid chores, responsibilities, or even basic adulting? Is there a chance they're actually wielding the secret weapon of "strategic incompetence?” Today we’re unpacking the psychology behind weaponized incompetence, and equipping you with strategies to navigate this tricky dynamic, w…

Have you ever found yourself wondering about the balance between compatibility and chemistry in relationships? Can you have both compatibility and chemistry, or does one take precedence over the other? Today we’re discussing the nuances of these two relationship pillars. From shared values and long-term goals to the electrifying sparks of attractio…

What does it mean to have your own taste, distinct from the influence of trends and online pressures? How do you maintain your individuality in a sea of conformity? Today we’re discussing the complexities of preserving your uniqueness in the age of likes, shares and trending hashtags. In this episode we: Discuss how social media has limited individ…

What steals our childlike wonder? Why does curiosity often take a back seat in the hustle of adult life? What if the key to a more fulfilling life lies in the questions we ask and the paths we choose to explore? If you’re ready to reignite your curiosity, this episode is for you! In this episode we: Discuss factors that contribute to the decline of…

What does femininity mean to you? How do you express your feminine energy? In today’s episode we’re exploring the world of femininity and celebrating the spectrum of feminine expression using Jungian analyst and psychiatrist, Jean Shinoda Bolen’s framework for the 7 feminine archetypes. In this episode we: Define the 7 feminine archetypes— key trai…

Have you ever contemplated what life would be like without the familiar hum of alcohol in the background? As Dry January unfolds, we’re discussing the growing sober curious movement and shedding light on the benefits that reach far beyond a hangover-free morning. From mental clarity to rediscovering your true self, we’re unpacking the potential of …

How often do you find yourself dwelling on someone else's opinion? Ever wondered why it's so challenging to brush off criticism? What if you could unlock the secret to these common questions? If you’re ready to liberate yourself from the trap of taking things personally and reclaim your inner peace, this episode is for you! In this episode we: Iden…

What does it take to truly reinvent yourself and begin a new era of life?? As we step into the fresh canvas of 2024, the idea of entering a new era isn’t just a catchphrase; it’s a commitment to your personal evolution! If you’re ready to jumpstart your journey towards a refreshed and reimagined version of yourself, this episode is for you! In this…

As we prepare to come back from our break we thought we’d give y’all a sneak peek of what you’re missing over at the Homegirl Hangout. Enjoy this Bravado Bonus! Are you tired of the strong black woman narrative? Resilience Resentment is a pushback to those toxic nudges that encourage us to conquer our emotions and be unwavering under stress and dif…

The girls are on break but we’re taking this time to bump a few of our favorite and most valuable episodes to the top of your feed. This one is a goodie and a must listen before the year ends! Are you tired of making resolutions that don’t stick? What about trying to create new healthy habits to only look up and realize you’ve fallen back into your…

We’re taking the last few weeks of the year to revisit a few of our favorite and most impactful episodes. We invite you to ease into the new year considering what you can do to make it the best one yet; and we’re sure episodes like this one will help you do just that! Have you ever felt like you have so many things to do and EVERYTHING is a priorit…

A lot happened this year, so of course we need to chat about it! It’s time to reflect on all we’ve learned, the goals we’ve achieved (and didn’t lol), and how we’re looking forward to becoming the best versions of ourselves in 2024! In this episode we discuss: What we discovered about ourselves this year that was previously unknown How the people a…

Have you ever felt trapped in repeating patterns that seem to hold you back from reaching your full potential? Today we’re discussing the intricate art of releasing patterns that hinder us from being our best selves. If you’re ready to overcome self-limiting beliefs or shed repetitive cycles, today’s episode is for you! In this episode we discuss: …

What do you feel when you hear the word ambition? Does it spark any ill feelings? Do you feel it’s a characteristic that you possess? Is it something you wish you had more of?? Today, we’re engaging in an open dialogue questioning the traditional definitions of success and ambition. If you’re ready to define success on your own terms, this episode …

Tune in to a powerful episode featuring Mustafa Speaks and Morgan McCoy, both proud alumni of Hampton University. These two incredible individuals share their journey of friendship and transformation that began on the university grounds. Get ready to be inspired as Mustafa and Morgan open up about their collaborative efforts to ignite change and pa…

Join us for an exclusive chat with the multi-talented Terrence J—TV host, entrepreneur, actor, and philanthropist. In this episode, Terrence shares how he's become a force for positive change in his community over his impressive 20-year career. Discover the secrets behind his journey of reinvention and relentless pursuit of excellence. Terrence ope…

Have you ever wondered why some people seem to radiate positivity effortlessly and others are down in the dumps? What if breaking free from misery was not just a distant dream, but a tangible reality? If you’re ready to banish misery from your life and have a brighter perspective, this episode is for you! In this episode we discuss: How to use the …

Join us in a compelling conversation with Bdaht, a proud alum of Winston-Salem State University, as he shares a heartfelt account of how his alma mater saved his life! Bdaht reflects on the transformative power of networking and the role community plays in his success. Get ready for an inspiring exploration of resilience, growth and vulnerability t…

In this episode, join us as we sit down with one of Winston-Salem State University's finest, Summer Brown. Together, we discuss the inspiring journey of what it means to be a change-maker and explore the profound impact individuals can have on their communities and beyond. Tune in to gain insights and motivation from Summer's experiences as an HBCU…

Are you always in a rush? Do you find yourself racing to accomplish tasks on your to-do list? Do minor inconveniences and setbacks frustrate you? If so, you might be struggling with a hurry sickness- a behavior pattern characterized by an overwhelming and continual sense of urgency. In this episode we discuss: How hurry sickness can impact your hea…

Today we’re putting ourselves in other people's shoes and wondering what we’d do in their situations. It’s time for “AITA?”What would you do if your sister severely bullied you your whole life and now expects to be friends in adulthood? How would you respond if your boyfriend lied about having to work to avoid going on a vacation with you and your …

Are you feeling the financial crunch of the current economy? Have you been girl-mathing your expenses and things aren’t adding up?! Between low job wages and seemingly unmanageable living costs, it’s safe to say inflation is doing us in and today we’re talking about it! In this episode we discuss: Why Millennials and Gen Z are being hit the hardest…

Many of us believe that we’re compassionate and consider the feelings and experiences of others but what if we told you as a collective we’re not empathetic enough? It’s true! The world is experiencing an empathy deficit and today, we’re talking about it. In this episode we discuss: What factors contribute to our lack of empathy The difference betw…

How many times have you been in a relationship and all of a sudden you’re living together or expecting a child? Do you recall the conversation that led you to such a milestone decision? It’s likely there wasn’t one. Today, we’re discussing what it means to make intentional choices rather than slide into decisions within your relationship. In this e…

Let’s keep it real! There’s a little drama queen in all of us but some of the girls have taken it a bit too far. If you’re drawn to chaos or know someone who can’t seem to avoid the drama, this episode is for you! In this episode we discuss: Need For Drama (NFD) and signs of this personality traitTips to manage your desire for drama Ways to deal wi…

How long has it been since you’ve examined the relationship you have with yourself? When you think about what it looks like to show up as a good partner in a relationship or a great homegirl in a friendship, are you showing up in the same ways for yourself? Today we’re discussing how to fall in love with the most important person in your life, YOU!…

What would you do if you hated your bestfriend’s cheating man? How long should you date someone before expecting them to pop the question? If things didn’t work out, is it okay to spin the block and try again? Is it fair to have to choose sides between your husband and your bestfriend?? Today, we’re answering the homegirl hotline calls and giving t…

In a world that often glorifies romantic relationships, it can be challenging to navigate the realm of singlehood. Today we're reminding you that you don't need a relationship to complete your life; you can complete yourself. Whether you're happily single, single and ready for a relationship, or dating, this episode is for you! In this episode we d…

Are you stuck in a cycle of make-up to break-up with your boo? Does your back and forth relationship offer you a false sense of stability? Although on-and-off again relationships are common, it’s time we look at the real reason you can’t stop going back to your ex. In this episode we discuss: Common causes for on/off again relationships Our experie…

Have you always envisioned yourself as a mom? Do you picture a future without children? What would life look like if you chose a child-free life? Have you felt shame from society because you don’t want kids? Today we’re discussing what it means to live child-free by choice. In this episode we discuss: Myths associated with the decision to be child-…

Can you distinguish if a friend is being competitive or copying your every move? Would you let your sneaky link borrow money after 2 months of talking? How would you feel if your best friend didn’t invite you on her birthday trip?? Today, we’re answering the homegirl hotline calls and giving the girls the advice they need! Hit our Homegirl Hotline……

Do you remember the goals/intentions you set at the top of the year? How successful have you been in achieving them?? As the initial enthusiasm of the new year fades and we find ourselves in the midst of the year, it's not uncommon to realize that the goals we set at the beginning of the year might not be resonating as they once did. Whether you're…

Just like the changing seasons of nature, life unfolds in different phases, each serving a specific purpose. Whether you're facing challenges or celebrating victories, this episode will empower you to navigate life's transitions with grace and purpose.In this episode we discuss:The different seasons we experience in our lives How to maximize the se…

When was the last time you asked your friend questions like: When do you trust me? What about our dynamic concerns you? What is a mistake you think I keep making? If you’re anything like us, you likely haven’t lol After being friends for over a decade we’d like to believe we know each other pretty well, but do we really?! Today we’re deepening our …

Have you ever felt compelled to travel to a destination but can’t explain why? Are you interested in relocating but not sure where or when you should pack up and go? Today we’re chatting with Astrologer Tamerri Ater to explore how we can use our natal charts as our personal maps along our travel journeys. In this episode we discuss: How your career…

We hate to break it to you but people aren't thinking about you as much as you think. We're breaking down the psychology of how we overestimate how much others pay attention and care about our appearance or behavior. It's giving lifehack, homegirls!In this episode we discuss: How The Spotlight Effect impacts our self awareness and self esteemWays d…

Have you considered what your life outside of America could look like? More and more Black women are packing their bags for good and opening themselves up to the idea of living abroad. Today we’re joined by world traveler + expat expert Imani Bashir to give us the tea on how to live abroad with ease. In this episode we discuss: What to consider bef…

If you’re tired of trips not making it out of the group chat and are ready to get into your solo travel bag, today’s episode is for you! This week we’re joined by our homegirl, Tai Eiland to discuss how to travel alone like a pro. In this episode we discuss: The perks of solo traveling, where to go first + flight hacks Ways to be safe as possible w…

How do you recover when a homegirl hurts you? Or when a friend you thought was a day one turns out to have never had your back? Feeling betrayed by a close friend can create wounds and trust issues causing us to be fearful or closed off to making new friends. In this episode we discuss: How friendship trauma occurs and tips to help you move past th…