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BONUS: Q&A with Rob & Tami - My Addict’s Therapist Blames Me for His Wrong Doings!

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Rob and Tami explain in depth what a betrayed spouse is going through during the first year and a half after a reveal, and what a person in recovery can do about it. They also answer listener questions about porn addiction since the age of 10, and what to do when a CSAT therapist sides with the addict and not with the betrayed spouse.

TAKEAWAYS:

[0:25] My wife hates me. When will it stop?

[2:25] Dr. Rob explains why it’s important for betrayed spouses to find a place to vent outside of your home with the addict.

[4:25] He’s just not getting it! Will I ever get empathy from my addict?

[8:00] I have been a compulsive user of sexual fantasy since I was 10. I’m struggling. How do I become normal again?

[13:15] As a betrayed spouse, I’m seeing red flags with my husband’s current therapist. The therapist blames me!

[15:40] Not all therapists are good therapists. You do get a mixed bag and it can be a journey to find the right one.

[18:45] My addict broke my boundaries. What do I do?

[25:35] At Seeking Integrity, Dr. Rob and his team turn boys into men.

[27:35] Is there something wrong with me that I want to be intimate with my untrustworthy addict?

RESOURCES:

Seekingintegrity.com

Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com

Sexandrelationshiphealing.com

Intherooms.com

Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating Book by Robert Weiss

Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Book by Robert Weiss

Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction by Robert Weiss

Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating Book by Robert Weiss

Cruise Control Book by Robert Weiss

QUOTES

  • “After a year and a half, I will say to betrayed spouses that, at a certain point, your anger can be unproductive.”
  • “I think it’s important for every betrayed spouse to have a place to go where they can vent because addicts need some space from you in order to grow, even though we deserve [the anger]!”
  • “Stopping the bad behavior I can do in a month or two, but becoming a good person can take a long time. A lot of therapy.”
  • “Stopping the behavior is critically important, but also address the underlying issues. There’s a reason we use these addictions as an escape.”
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コンテンツは Seeking Integrity LLC, Robert Weiss, and MSW によって提供されます。エピソード、グラフィック、ポッドキャストの説明を含むすべてのポッドキャスト コンテンツは、Seeking Integrity LLC, Robert Weiss, and MSW またはそのポッドキャスト プラットフォーム パートナーによって直接アップロードされ、提供されます。誰かがあなたの著作権で保護された作品をあなたの許可なく使用していると思われる場合は、ここで概説されているプロセスに従うことができますhttps://ja.player.fm/legal

Rob and Tami explain in depth what a betrayed spouse is going through during the first year and a half after a reveal, and what a person in recovery can do about it. They also answer listener questions about porn addiction since the age of 10, and what to do when a CSAT therapist sides with the addict and not with the betrayed spouse.

TAKEAWAYS:

[0:25] My wife hates me. When will it stop?

[2:25] Dr. Rob explains why it’s important for betrayed spouses to find a place to vent outside of your home with the addict.

[4:25] He’s just not getting it! Will I ever get empathy from my addict?

[8:00] I have been a compulsive user of sexual fantasy since I was 10. I’m struggling. How do I become normal again?

[13:15] As a betrayed spouse, I’m seeing red flags with my husband’s current therapist. The therapist blames me!

[15:40] Not all therapists are good therapists. You do get a mixed bag and it can be a journey to find the right one.

[18:45] My addict broke my boundaries. What do I do?

[25:35] At Seeking Integrity, Dr. Rob and his team turn boys into men.

[27:35] Is there something wrong with me that I want to be intimate with my untrustworthy addict?

RESOURCES:

Seekingintegrity.com

Email Tami: Tami@Seekingintegrity.com

Sexandrelationshiphealing.com

Intherooms.com

Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating Book by Robert Weiss

Prodependence: Moving Beyond Codependency Book by Robert Weiss

Sex Addiction 101: A Basic Guide to Healing from Sex, Porn, and Love Addiction by Robert Weiss

Out of the Doghouse: A Step-by-Step Relationship-Saving Guide for Men Caught Cheating Book by Robert Weiss

Cruise Control Book by Robert Weiss

QUOTES

  • “After a year and a half, I will say to betrayed spouses that, at a certain point, your anger can be unproductive.”
  • “I think it’s important for every betrayed spouse to have a place to go where they can vent because addicts need some space from you in order to grow, even though we deserve [the anger]!”
  • “Stopping the bad behavior I can do in a month or two, but becoming a good person can take a long time. A lot of therapy.”
  • “Stopping the behavior is critically important, but also address the underlying issues. There’s a reason we use these addictions as an escape.”
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