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Hosted by Singapore's OG Influencer, Wendy Cheng aka Xiaxue, the #Nofilter podcast is XX’s unfiltered commentary on interesting news happening around the world. Plug in your earphones for a dose of brutal honesty and refreshing tirades. Catch our weekly episodes for more juicy news and remember to hit follow! BONUS: Click here to ask Xiaxue for advice or to have her read your dedication! p/s: Don't forget to 'follow' for more exciting content
 
The Immortal Index is A Podcast show discussing Chinese webnovel translations of "Xianxia" and/or "Wuxia" - hosted by @StephenLemieux and produced alongside AfterBuzz TV, Rate and comment for a shout out on on the show; and tell me what you'd like to talk about! Xianxia: a type of Chinese Martial Arts novel genre developed from the Wuxia genre that is heavily influenced by Taoism and Buddhism. ... Contrary to the Wuxia genre, Xianxia novels have more elements of fantasy, complete with magic, ...
 
Book Three of the Ammonite Galaxy series: Grace is blaming herself for the death of two good men on Kwaide – even Six’s teasing can’t raise a smile at first. A strange first contact on a distant planet might provide a vital clue to Arcan’s past, but it can’t quite cure Grace of her feelings of guilt. When they arrive on Xiantha, they find a stunning planet; hot, sunny and full of colour. For the first time they can start to relax and enjoy a holiday – at least, until the independent Diva is ...
 
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还有时,我觉得自己不想做这件事的原因是觉得这件事情不合适。如何区别这是拖延症,还是这件事情确实不适合自己呢? At other times, I think the reason for myreluctance in doing things is the idea that I’m not suitable to do it. How to distinguish procrastinationfrom unsuitability? 对自己所走的路失去了信心,心就会抗拒、徘徊,行为就会软弱无力,一切看似合理的理由都是在找借口而已。 If you lose confidence in the path you havetaken, you heart will resist and wan…
 
究竟是什么原因导致的拖延症呢? What on earth leads to procrastination? 拖延症有很多原因:畏难情绪、侥幸心理等等,而当它成为一个习惯之后,这个惯性的力量就成为了最重要的原因。 There are many causes of procrastinationsuch as fear of difficulties, fluke mind, etc.. After forming a habit, theforce of such psychological inertia becomes the most important cause ofprocrastination. 遇到困难,做不下去怎么办? What if I can't go on when…
 
老师好,有些很烦恼的事,想请您帮忙解答! Dear teacher, I’ve got something vexing. Could you please help me out? 请讲。 Yes, please. 我行动力非常缺乏,老是拖拖拉拉,常常把自己拉到焦虑和抑郁的边缘,都快崩溃了!您帮帮我吧! I’m starved of impetus and always procrastinate until the last moment,thus dragging myself into anxiety and depression, and even a breakdown! Pleasehelp me! 拖延症是一种典型的不理智行为,被情绪所控制而白白浪费许多时间,越是如此心中焦虑…
 
在生活中总能遇到“三个和尚没水吃”的情况。懒惰,等待别人似乎是没有办法解决的问题,要怎么办呢?应该视而不见和别人一起等待,还是永远自己替别人去挑水? The case of “three monkshave no water to drink” always occursin life. Laziness and dependence seem to be a problem that cannot be solved.How to cope with it? Turn a blind eye to wait along with others, or alwayscarry water for somebody else? “挑水”并不是为了别人,而是为了自己。人总喜欢算计,怕自己吃亏,结…
 
为了强大,就得让心变硬、变坏吧!所以有那么多善良的人在这世间经历生活之后变成一个丑陋的人,变成世俗之人! Probably, in order to be strong, we have to harden our heart and getit gone bad. That’s why so many kindpeople have become ugly and worldly after going through ups and downs in thismundane world! 善良是不容置疑的,唯有善良才能带给人心最究竟的平静与快乐。很多人不能坚持善良,是因为内心对道之真理不清楚,不明白,在境界面前产生了怀疑与动摇,其结果是为了一时小利而失去了生命大利,从更长远、更究竟的层面…
 
我真诚待人,人不真诚待我,该如何?我以善意待人,人以恶意待我,又该如何?一味心善,被踩死是活该吗? I am sincere to others, what if others are not sincere to me? And Itreat others with kindness, what if others treat me with malice? Stubbornlysticking to kindness is doomed to being bullied? 善良绝不等于软弱可欺,恰恰相反,善良是一种力量,看见光明、战胜阴暗、唤醒美好的力量,当想放弃善良时,正说明自己内心的软弱无力。人生来就应该善良,失去了善良的心,即使得到了一时的成功,又有何快乐可言呢?更何况,善业必感善…
 
老师好,我总是很担心“人善被人欺”。 Greetings,Master. I am always worried that “nice guys areprone to be bullied.” 怎么会这么想呢? Why doyou think so? 我发善心去帮助别人,却被骗了。做一个好人这么难,我还要坚持善良吗? I wascheated when I aroused my kindness to help others. It is so hard to be a goodperson, should I insist on being kind? 许多人在行善的过程中遇到了挫折、不理解甚至来自“受助者”的伤害后,就会觉得善良的人容易受伤害,这是因为不懂得为什么要善良,对付出总有期待…
 
Fix the mind When we focus our attention on the outsideworld, we forget to “fix the mind”, which is the core of cultivation. When judging others as wrong, we must tryto understand their true intentions instead of being caught by formalities;when accepting others as good, to observe their action is enough, we do notneed to dig their intentions.” Thi…
 
A troubled heart We experience pain because we rely on the external to bring ushappiness. When the heart is troubled, peace only comes within. So, changingour perception is the first step. How we were brought up and educated,ourrelatives’ and friends’ attitude towards life, etc. all indirectly influencedour perception, and shaped how we see life—po…
 
Loving one’s parents Filial piety lies insincerity instead of materials. To support and wait upon our parents, the bestway is to do it appropriately rather than over-abundantly or extravagantly. Itis great harm to our parents to celebrate their birthdays by killing numerousanimals for feasts. Real love and piety for parents is spiritual concern and…
 
When you can’t get over something, just stop thinking about it How can we find a way out of a maze? It is easy to have a clear picture ifwe can stand in high places. You can't see the forest for thetrees. When we feel lost and couldn't findthe way, it is usually because we are caught inthe situation, and trapped by our own interests,feelings, gains…
 
我在和别人一起做事时,总是特别在意别人对我的看法,请问这是一种怎样的烦恼?应该怎样去对治它? When I work with others, Ialways care about what others think of me. Could you tell me what affliction itis and how to cope with it? 这是一种微细但深重的名利心,一旦陷入名利心的沼泽,就会被烦恼绑架,不得自在,痛苦远远大于快乐。其实,虚妄的名誉如同过眼云烟,何必去攀求执著?无论是赞叹还是毁谤,都是外在的东西,赞叹不能增长我们的功德,毁谤不能增加我们的罪业,又何必患得患失呢? It is a subtle but deep-rooted obsession with fa…
 
问:老师,一个人总是很在意他人的看法如何是好,明知不必在乎,可是遇事依旧很在意他人眼中的自己,Master, what can I do if I always care too much about others’ opinion? I know there is no need to worry but I’m still concerned with what others think of me. 而且总是担心别人对自己有误解,害怕自己的做法伤害他人,回复消息时都要小心翼翼,再三斟酌,这样好心累啊,请老师开导。 And I’m always afraid ofbeing misunderstood and fear that what I do may hurt others. So…
 
问:我总是害怕失败,害怕别人笑话我,于是什么都不敢做。我总是想把事情做到十全十美,虽然我也知道世上无完事,但总会这么想。我从小生活在一个没有人肯定我的家庭中,我还有个妹妹,小时候,她经常不及格,而我总是考班级前几名。可是,我的爸爸总是会鼓励妹妹,夸赞她。而对我,总是大骂,怪我没考满分。 I am always soafraid of failure and ridicule from others that I dare not do anything. Ialways want to make things perfect. Even though I know that there is no perfectthing in the world, I can’t help thinkin…
 
2、问:为何我每做一件事或说了什么话,都有人拿来做文章或背后议论,总怕被人指指点点,特别焦虑! Why do I get picked on or gossiped about behind my back every time Ido or say something? I’m constantlyafraid of what others think about me, feeling especially anxious. 答:大家关注自己,说明自己有值得关注之处,要以此为策励,更加努力向上,散发更多正能量。“仰不愧于天,俯不怍于人”,心安、自得、快乐。 When people pay attention to yourself, you have something to deser…
 
人生活在这个社会中,总会与人打交道,很多人活在他人的眼光中,痛苦不堪。 As youknow, people living in this society always have to deal with each other. Butmany living in others’ eyes gave way to helpless misery. 让智慧来帮助我们战胜这些烦恼吧。 Let thewisdom help us out of these afflictions. 1、 问:今年大龄未婚,前不久工作也没了,越来越自卑自闭,不愿外出也不愿与朋友联系,害怕别人嘲笑瞧不起,心态很不好。请老师指导。 I amabove the average age for marriage but st…
 
Envy, jealousy, hatred Delusion breeds jealousy. To take others’gain as one’s own loss, to separate, and to contrast, all these lead todepression and hatred. While in fact, one doesn’t have to lose anything even ifothers may gain. Everyone lives his separate life. There is absolutely no needto compare, nor is it possible. Unfortunately, one imagine…
 
A soft and open heart To stick to our own ideas does notnecessarily mean to shun others’ opinions. If we are down because of our thoughtsnot being accepted by others, what we really have in mind is only our feelings.We are unable to see the good intention of others not to say to understand andthank them. At that point, our heart is closed and weare…
 
A positive and happy mind Adjustments should be made when work piles up, but most importantly,we should adjust our mindset of resentment. Our mind is like food, essential tothe body. A positive and happy mind can be a source of energy, while a negativeand resentful mind will poison us like food that has gone bad. Every occupationhas its significanc…
 
Wishingfor nothing To wish for nothing is still a wish. It is a wish for liberated ease when alltightly entangled knots are cut off. Therefore, literally, it is not wishing fornothing. There still exists a wish, but fordifferent things. To desire for something does not mean goingupward. The desire for fame and vanity is exactlywhere one starts to d…
 
Who am I? The “self” is a concept created from ourdream-thinking, which means something permanent, autonomous and dominant. Wealways believe that there is an eternal, essential and absolute “self” havingcontrol over life. But Dharma teaches us, in reality,“non-self” isthe truth.“Non-self” does not mean the absence of “self”, but rather thenonexiste…
 
Right and Wrong More often than not, when disputing on"rights and wrongs", we actually have been far removed from thethings in themselves, and fallen into a confused fighting of inner afflictions.As everyone has their own perspectives, the "fact" you see is notnecessarily the same as that your counterpart sees. If either side insist onthe counterpa…
 
I can figure this out To fear andworry about imaginary difficulties is nothing but your own illusions. Even ifnothing occurs, you might already be flooded by waves of pessimistic illusions. Those who’velost their mindfulness tend to think that “what if I cannot do it?” However,those with mindfulness believe that “I can try to figure this out.” For …
 
Generate theinner light Tounderstand all phenomena is to have knowledge; to know the principles behind thephenomena is to have wisdom. With both knowledge and wisdom, one can make sounddecisions when caught in difficult situations. Prajna is theinsight into emptiness. To learn the law of non-self and emptiness, one has to observeprecepts, to practi…
 
Thedouble-headed bird There isa Buddhist story about a double-headed bird. The two heads compete against eachother for fruit. One head deliberately gives the poisonous fruit to the other, andboth heads die. In fact,the same is true of a society. Everyone coexists with others. To harm others isto harm oneself. To be the best is to compete with onese…
 
Was the famous golden shower at Ngee Ann poly bullying? Olympics Creative Chief suggested celebrity Naomi Watanabe dress up as an "olympig" for the Games and was asked to resign. Fair or not fair? Is it ok for someone to sell a drawing of your face? This is a question that many would have asked since the saga of local model, Mei Yue and artist, All…
 
Why are you so easily swayed by outside conditions? Our purity and kindness are the same as that of our good-knowing advisors. The only difference is the duration. Our moment of clarity of the mind is transient and can be easily wrapped up by outside conditions and afflictions. Whereas, our good-knowing advisors are capable of maintaining this comp…
 
Whom to compare with? What to compare with? Comparisons are not all wrong. The key is to compare what, And with what purpose. We should compare with the sages on virtue,wisdom, Vows and resolution. Thus, to have high esteem and hope for oneself, And to strive to emulate the sages, laying the foundation for the arising of wholesome dharmas. If we co…
 
有些事情的發生被迫你停下來,但換個角度想...它是給你機會「重新開始」。 你面對突如其來的想法會有什麼樣的反應或行動?你是哪個流派? 身為人都有選擇,不管結果好壞,只要不後悔就是好選擇。 Powered by Firstory Hosting
 
Turn the mind to a new direction The Buddha Dharma believes that “the mindis like a painter.” Everything in the world, beautiful or ugly, good or bad, areall drawn by our mind. Take for example the photo of our parents, it is nothingbut a piece of paper in others’ eyes. For us, however, it is a symbol of heart-warminglove. At the sight of it, a ran…
 
Tranquility If your mind is agitated, afflictions are stirring up.Tranquility in the Buddhist context is achieved due to wisdom’s capacity to subdue afflictions. No outside changes can sway the mind. Massive power is hidden in such quietness. Humans are like this, easily swayed by conditions. It might be easy to remain calm and get along with the w…
 
The stuff of “I” is no good Some people are greedy for money, some for good reputation. The latter ones are chained to vanity, and not able to be at ease. Once we are aware of such a state, It will stop proliferating. Furthermore, we need to consider: There are one hundred of “I”s in one hundred people’s minds. The perfect images one tries to maint…
 
Not talking about other’s fault When facing problems, most people would blame others for it right away, and seldom reflect on themselves, especially when the other person did do something wrong. Then, they will scold others with an afflicted mind, instead of considering how to change and improve the situation. The teaching of “do not talk about oth…
 
Get up close & personal with the fellow cast member of Netflix's Bling Empire, the real crazy rich asian of Singapore, Kane Lim. Hear juicy insights of the series and gossips about the cast members!Also, uncover the bitter-sweet moments of being crazy rich and tips on how to find true friendships/love when you come from a wealthy background.…
 
Happy and fearless We may feel extremely tired if we regard doing something as a task that has to be finished, or, if we do it in the hope of getting a good result. While dangling between gain and loss, our heart is greatly distracted. Only when we clearly understand the meaning of what we are doing instead of craving for a certain result, and only…
 
A truly beneficial friend In order to make a truly beneficial friend who dare to give you critical advice, one has to have a big heart. The law of related karma applies here, too. One need to put in great efforts to cultivate one’s own virtue, to aspire for virtuous friends, and to be modest and eager for learning. Then, gradually, virtuous friends…
 
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