This week's guest is sexual anthropologist and author of the new memoir 177 Lovers and Counting: My Life as a Sex Researcher, Dr. Leanna Wolfe. Purchase the book: https://rowman.com/ISBN/9781538174678/177-Lovers-and-Counting-My-Life-as-a-Sex-Researcher _____________________________________________________________________ Social Media: https://linkt…

This week's guest is Leslie Draffin, psychedelic guide, somatic womb healer, transformational coach & speaker as we discuss sexuality, trauma, and healing through the power of psychedelics. Follow Leslie: https://www.lesliedraffin.com/ _____________________________________________________________________ Social Media: https://linktr.ee/demitriwylde…

This week's guest is Bari Beckett, the creative and the author behind the new erotica book, Big Love, which proves you are never too old for love and sex. Follow Bari: https://www.instagram.com/bbarilynn/ Buy Big Love: https://www.amazon.com/Big-Love-Bari-Beckett/dp/B0CH2CQQYX _____________________________________________________________________ So…

This week’s guest is author, business coach and shamanic practitioner, Dale Allen-Rowse. We discuss his experience being diagnosed with Dystonia, dating with disabilities, flying to another state for a hookup, and so much more! Follow Dale: Instagram.com/daleallenrowse DaleAllenRowse.com _____________________________________________________________…

This week’s guest is Natalie Katona, host of the To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before podcast. We discuss dating while podcasting, feeling secure in relationships, rejection sensitivity, and so much more! Follow Natalie: Instagram.com/nataliek124 To All The Men I’ve Tolerated Before podcast: https://linktr.ee/nataliekat124 _________________________…

This week's guest deviant is Legal Madame and Courtesan, s*x work advocate and educator, Olivia LaRue! We discuss her background as "The Wild West MILF, " the legality of s*x work, and she shares a riotously funny Mrs. Robinson-esque tale! Find Olivia: www.livlarue.com _____________________________________________________________________ Social Med…

Happy Valentine’s Day, deviants! In this special episode Demi talks to celebrity gay matchmakers, Daniel Cooley and Anthony Canapi about what a matchmaker does, what makes a good dating profile, turning matchmaking into a business, the future of dating, and of course Daniel and Anthony share some dating horror stories! Follow Daniel + Anthony: inst…

In this episode Demi talks to kinky wellness coach, Dana Shergill. We discuss her love of “playing rough,” how BDSM is “playing rough,” common misconceptions of BDSM, basics of BDSM, owning your consent, what “aftercare” is in BDSM, we answer a Reddit question about how kink can go wrong, and Dana shares the story of the time she held a man and let…

In this episode Demi talks to author of the book Twisted Love, Robert Bigaouette. Twisted Love is a story about a bizarre love triangle revolving around obsession. We discuss how he got started in writing, being a victim of obsession himself, having to file an Order of Protection, taking his personal experiences to write Twisted Love, psychology of…

In this weeks episode Demi talks to entrepreneur and intimacy expert Susan Bratton. We discuss communication skills in bed, male and female sexual responses, expanded orgasm meditation, the OneTaste sex cult, sexual biohacking, sex toy show & tell, and she tells a horror story about the time she got bedbugs at an orgy!Follow Susan: @susanbrattonWeb…

In this episode Demi talks to author, licensed mental health counselor, and love and relationship coach, Riana Milne. We discuss how childhood traumas affect our relationships, common childhood traumas, common dating patters that emerge from traumas, cultural differences in choosing partners, plus she shares her own trauma story that catapulted her…

Welcome to season 5, deviants! This season kicks off with p*rn addiction recovery specialist and CEO of Elevated Recovery, J.K. Emezi. We discuss why he prefers "reboot" to "recovery," challenges with 12 step programs, the cognitive science behind p*rn addiction, p*rn as intimacy replacement, and he shares a terrifying story of a hookup that may ha…

Another bonus episode, deviants! This episode I talk to author Heather Claus. We discuss being a pioneer of the internet, being "heteroflexible," joining the carnival as a teenager, alternative and k!nky lifestyles, surviving emotional abuse, setting proper boundaries, and so much more! She also shares the story of a date that narrowly ended in a h…

In a special bonus episode of Hookup Horror Stories, I am joined by dating coach Krista Melanson! We discuss previously working at a p*rn shop, the conection between food and s*x, the evolution of the adult industry, watching the original Pam & Tommy video, dating with yoour kids' approval, the benefits of having a dating coach, and she tells the s…

It's spooky season, deviants, so this week I am joined by true crime author and novelist, Ryan Winter. We discuss being "New Orleans Mother Goose," his books "Ravish" and "Wake the Devil," living and dating in New Orleans, the queer history of the French Quarter, writing horror and true crime, "The Axe Man" of New Orleans, plus so much more! Plus h…

In the season 4 finale, this week I have a double interview with co-authors of the book "Street Smart Safety for Women" Joy Farrow and Laura Frombach. We discuss the helping role Joy played in the 2017 mass shooting at Fort Lauderdale airport, Laura's history as a survivor of domestic violence and her "aha" moment and how it changed her life, and d…

This week I sat down with men's dating coach Melanie Curtin! She and I discussed sex abuse in the Jewish community, survivor resilience, why representation matters, "Nice Guys" versus "Bad Guys," plus so much more. Plus she shares the story of a time a time for her when a hookup didn't go quite as well as planned, and why women feel that men are "o…

This week I'm joined by the host of The Ghost Podcast: Rosemary! We discuss how dating apps date your brain, swipe culture, how app culture changed dating relationships, avoidant attachment, and so much more. Plus she shares a personal ghosting story. Find Rosemary/The Ghost Podcast: https://theghostpodcast.com/ For video version of the podcast, ea…

This week I'm joined by my friend actor and model Davi Stefond! We discuss his model/actor trajectory, dating in LA, hookup culture and dating mentality, and we play an XXX rated game! Plus he shares a story of a hookup that had 2 more guests than was mentioned. Find Davi: https://www.instagram.com/davi_stefo/ For video version of the podcast, earl…

This week I'm joined by actor, singer, and author of the book Cancer, Musical Theatre & Other Chronic Illnesses Edward Miskie! We discussed, being outed, his love of musical theater, being the survivor of a rare form of Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma, sex and cancer, and so much more! Plus he tells the story of a hookup with a guy who had nosaphilia: a feti…

In this episode I am joined by holistic practitioner, writer, and sex educator, Cindy Luquin! We discuss her pathway to becoming a sex educator, cultivating pleasure principles, queer spiritual wellness, consensual nonconsent, Gen Z, and so much more! Plus she shares a story of a boyfriend she tried hiding from her parents. Find Cindy: https://www.…

In this episode I am joined by author of the book "Sextrology: Astrology of your Sexual Subconscious" and CEO of Pleasure Science, Nadége! We discuss being hard on yourself, minority stress, the universal subject, and intersectionality in sex, the true history of the fertility goddess; Virgo, plus so much more! She also shares a story of a will-the…

In this episode I'm joined by sex blogger, Lindsay Rosales (@sacinthesheets), and we discuss sex blogging, Sacramento's Syphilis epidemic, the importance of sex education, tarot and spirituality, marriage, sex toys, and so much more. She also tells the story that involved condom stealthing and an HPV diagnosis. Find Lindsay: https://www.instagram.c…

This week host of the SexParty.fm podcast Dustin Rybka to discuss a wide variety of topics such as his experience in Chicago club promotion and radio, being in love for the first time, guilty pleasures like MTV's Catfish and Cheaters, staying safe in club settings, Chicago's Smiley Face Killers, his story of when two girl switched places without hi…

This week author and reiki practitioner Te' Youngblood joins the show to discuss healing your sexual trauma through spiritual practices, her story of a first date when a man who she just met made way too many demands, and we play a game of red flags! Find Te': https://linktr.ee/Trauma.Release.Guide "Overcoming Sexual Trauma" by Te' Youngblood amazo…

This week's guest is host of the Heauxliloquy Podcast, teacher, writer, and author: Dr. Vernon Scott! We discuss the Heuxliloquy podcast, side projects, video games, being a heaux, and so much more! Plus he shares the time he got tricked by a hookup into giving him a ride. Find Dr. Vernon Scott: Podcast: https://www.heauxliloquy.com/ Instagram: htt…

This week's guest is host of the Working Under Pleasure podcast, Lucy Wood! We discuss our shared passion for podcasting, key themes in dating conversations, how to not be a "fixer," getting mistaken for an escort, how to identify a fuccboi, and so much more. Plus Lucy shares the story of when the edibles hit a bit too hard on a date. Find Lucy: In…

This week's guest deviant is the Nomadic Nympho herself, Jeneka Jool! We discuss her dual love of travel and sex education, the lack of taboo topics in Germany, "how to eat ass," creating educational content around sexuality, poetry, and so much more! Plus she tells the story of a time she ran into an ex while on a date that ended in a very sad blo…

This week's guest is author of "Hot To Be a Footpig" and "Roommate. Master. Footgod. King." James T. Medak! We discuss becoming a published author and our love of books, writing erotica, the science behind foot fetishes, and so much more! Plus he tells a horror story that included the tying down and tickling of a straight man. Find James: Books: ht…

This week's guest gay men's self-help coach, Steve Matos! We discuss growing up in New York City, music tastes, issues in the gay community, using sexuality in place of intimacy, and so much more! Plus he tells the story of he and his buddy's notorious heydays of runnin' trains on guys! Find Steve: https://www.instagram.com/sacredsteve_/ https://ww…

This week's guest is sex scholar and Executive Director of the Erotic Heritage Museum in Las Vegas, NV, Dr. Victoria Hartmann! We discuss Germanic approach to sex and how that influenced her area of expertise, the duality of sex and death and why people are attracted to serial killers, plus she shares the tale of a hotel hookup of giving head! Find…

April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month, and this week's guest is ex-navy veteran and author of the book "When Your Partner Says #MeToo: Your Role and Responsibility in Their Recovery Process" Shaun Hamilton. Find Shaun, pick up his book: https://shaunhamilton.com/ * Share your stories anonymously: https://forms.gle/QCgnnQsQE2n8rDQeA * Download MON…

It's me, hi, I'm the problem it's me! This week's guest deviant is platonic friendship coach, Lee Hopkins. We discuss being authentic in your relationships, his work as a platonic relationship coach, how his corporate job paid for his transition (FTM), how to make friends as an adult, secret medical issues, how your habits influence your friend gro…

This week's guest deviant is love and life coach, Ann Bell! We discuss massage table talk, first period experiences, processing your emotions, losing a partner to tragedy, ghosting, and much more! Plus she shares a story of a hookup who had no balls, and a date with a amn who we will call "Dirty Dan." Find Ann Bell: https://www.instagram.com/aconfi…

End of season 2, deviants! This week I went live on MŌN to discuss the latest "Hot Headlines:" a dating app torturer's police standoff, a s*x trafficking kidnapping from a Maverick's game, The Satanic Temple's abortion clinic, and we learn what "figging" is. We also react to some Reddit threads, and we play a round of Red Flags! Thanks to my friend…

Love is in the air! No... fuck that! Sapphire and Demi got together IRL to talk about why V-day is so overrated. Also thanks to our friends on MŌN for joining us. Grab a drink, puff a little something, and get ready for an Eargasm! Want more Ms. Sapphire? https://linktr.ee/msradiosapphire Help get this show seen! Please leave a review on Apple Podc…

Back with another interview, deviants! This week I sit down to talk with kink writer and educator, (and Demi's spiritual auntie?) Auntie Vice. We discuss her work as well as her vices, sketch comedy troupe: Trans Sketchual, and her podcast: Fat Chicks on Top. She also tells a couple stories of encounters with stalkers! Auntie Vice has a book, "Love…

Welcome back, deviants! I chatted with my friends on MŌN to discuss the weeks Hot Headlines: a woman stabbing her boyfriend for not helping with the bills, The Chainsmokers Eiffel Tower moment, A Tennessee police sex scandal, and Johnson & Johnson discontinuing their HIV vax study! We also react to some Reddit posts: how to enjoy doggy style, askin…

Back with another interview, deviants! This week I sat down with my new friend, Executive Editor for Hornet & Queer Spaces - Stephan Horbelt. We discuss the ins and outs of his very queer career, the magic of 'zines, how the app Spaces will revolutionize queer social media, and later on he tells the story of the time he nearly died by ingesting a w…

Welcome back, deviants! This week I went live on MŌN to discuss the weeks headlines; OF tax evasion, dominatrixes at city hall, Louisiana's new adult content law, and tramp stamps are back! We also answer some love and relationship questions from Reddit, and play a live game of Red Flags! Special thank you to my friends on MŌN, as well! Help get th…

This week I talk to my friend, host of The Gayted Community podcast and blogger Kory Pernell! We talk about the dating struggle in LA, f**king on the first date, partners meeting you halfway, taking too long to make a move, "boyfriend dick," plus so much more! Help get this show seen! Please leave a review on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.…

Slight trigger warning in this week's episode, a few topics discuss themes of violence and s__cide. Listener discretion is advised. Welcome back, deviants! This week I went live on MŌN to discuss the weeks headlines; Andrew Tate getting arrested, a s_x ed bomb threat, online "sextortion," and P__nh_b's year in review. We also answer some love and r…

Back with another interview, deviants! This week I sit down and talk to kink and phone seggs operator, Sassittarius! We discuss her moonlighting as a call girl, clients who only want to play games, chemical play, the ins and outs of content creation on OF, rating dick pics, and safety in seggs work. Plus she tells the story of a the time she met up…

#HookupHorrorStories with Demi Wylde live on MŌN on 12/16. Headlines include Antonio Brown, NYC serial killings, Oklahoma woman's r*pe charges, Florida Ex-priest sentenced. Reddit topics include bi-phobia, a trans woman's sexuality shift, being dominant in the bedroom, and a gay couple face infidelity. Plus we play a live round of Red Flags! Help g…

Back with another interview, deviants! This week I sit down and talk to author of the book These Stories Are True... I Sh*t You Not: A Humorous Look at Online Dating for the Unsuspecting Older Human, Catherine Berra! We discuss her previous career and living in D.C. and the whole process of writing her book. Plus she tells the story of the internet…

Welcome to the live episode, deviants! This week we were live on MŌN to discuss the latest scandals and news stories, dish some sexy advice to some Redditors, and we played a live game of Red Flags with other MŌNers. Some things we discussed were the recent Club Q shooting, Balenciaga's latest scandal, Amy Roback and T.J. Holmes from Good Morning A…

Welcome back deviants! This week I've got another solo episode on the topic on Sex Trafficking. I discuss how human trafficking happens, it's myths the realities, misinformation about it on social media, facts and statistics, and sex trafficking Red Flags. Plus throughout the episode, I share the stories of survivors such as Tonya, Markie Dell, Reb…

This week's special guest deviant is writer and relationship consultant: Ash Periseau! We discuss our Carrie Bradshaw fantasies, helping others through writing, the fundamentals of relationships, the impact of Mae West and owning your sexuality, navigating abusive relationships as a concerned friend, using the law of attraction in sex and dating, l…

This week's special guest deviant is relationship coach and dating expert: Charlene Byars! We discuss where all the good men are, limiting belief systems, early childhood experiences in love, being born "golden buddhas," surface level relationships, how we show up in our lives, and Charlene's best dating tips!Plus she shares the hilarious story of …

Welcome to season 2, deviants! This week's special guest is my good judy: production coordinator for KCBS Santa Barbara and professional podcast producer, Daniel Huecias. In this episode we talk about "chi-mos," living in the Inland Empire, unpacking religious trauma, viking funerals, channeling love to yourself, and much more. Plus he shares two a…