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Dr. Mike Mayer discusses psychological concerns with both business and family life. Relationships exist with business partners, employees, family members, friends, and other people you engage with on a daily basis. Dr. Mayer offers suggestions for these relationships based on psychological principles.
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Why Would Anyone Need to Talk to Another Person About One’s Own Issues of Life’s Concerns?
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Choose wisely someone who is a good listener that you can feel comfortable with. Where do you find this person? How will you feel after you have released some of your thoughts and feelings? Listen now to learn more.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Food for thought, be a better listener, find the good in others, are you content with your purpose in life, do you behave as you want others to emulate, do you know how to love others… learn moreDr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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What is the Influence of Appreciation and Praise in our Lives?
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Appreciation and Praise are more powerful motivators than money and physical intimacies. Some things you can do include: be polite and respectful, as people for their solutions for a problem, don’t give orders, listen, be positive. Listen now to learn more.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Needed Reminders: What are the positive things in our lives?
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Daily reminders of the powerfulness of the positives that do exist in our lives. There is a choice as to where we focus our energies. Enjoy the positive feelings that do exist between people, things, and events. Make a list of positives in your life and then when you are frustrated think about an item from this list. End your day by recalling two p…
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Entitlement: What do you think you are entitled to?
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Entitlement involves a responsivity to at in an appropriate ways to others. What is one entitled to? Can you change your expectations of entitlement? Learn more here.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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What are some lies that prevent powerful results?
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Lies we tell ourselves… It can never happen. Complaining is OK. Ill fix it later…. Things that paralyze us and keep us from creating a better life for ourselves.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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What are some tips to obtaining a positive attitude?
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What takes place in this world is not as important as how we view it. Put things in perspective. Is our stress and frustration really worth it? Have something to look forward to. Looking forward can keep you focused and excited. Help others, there is no better way to forget about your worries than to help others with theirs. Listen now to learn mor…
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What people do you trust enough to share your deepest thoughts and concerns with?
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To talk to someone about things they have to understand confidentiality, be a good listener. We must respect their opinions. What would we share with them?Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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What are some gifts we can give to others to brighten their lives?
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Our gifts are numerous. We offer acceptance, attention, forgiveness and many other gifts. We can give freely and with unconditional love. Don’t under value your gifts.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Learn 7 steps to help you succeed at your goals. We all want to make a difference and fulfill our dreams.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Learn from 5 quotes by Aristotle to live a better life today. Consider new concepts and change what is in your power to change.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Looking for some tools to get through these times. Dr. Mike Mayer has some tips for you. We all have different strengths and challenges. Learn about some tools that you have at hand to help you through this.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Fear which is common in these times needs to be replaced with hope for the future. Can we take actions to reduce our fear such as washing hands, and taking precautions. We have the time to get closer and be a family unit. Don't forget that joy and happiness can come in small packages. Each one of us has the potential to adapt to life's challenges.…
In the time of Covid-19 we need to meet this challenge in a personally successful way. Yet it can overwhelm us in all it's negative effects. Do not shut down and let fear be your only answers. Fight fear with real answers you can do to protect yourself and others. Do something to help the situation. Redirect yourself to activities and accomplish ta…
What are the unmovable beliefs we have about what makes us different? Can we change those beliefs? Can we look at the beliefs of others with an open mind and heart? Can we open our belief systems to new ideas or flexibility?Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Wealth means different things to different people. We come by our concept of wealth through our family of origin and our experiences. Can we broaden our concept of wealth to include the many ways we can reach others lives and share with them our many wealth's we posses as a person.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Fathers: are we aware of our importance as Fathers?
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The love of a father is never forgotten. The goal is to be awesome father that leaves their children with the feeling of being loved and the skills to regulate their behaviors.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Marriage: What do we need to teach our children about it?
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How can we show our children what they need to be, look for and do in a marriage? How do we show trust, commitment, and the qualities needed for a successful relationship?Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
At this busy time when everyone is trying to gift gifts to so many people we often forget the caring and loving that should go with the process. Let them know you care about them and how they have positively effected your lives.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Start with self. Do we take care of our selves, our body, our emotions, out spirit? Loving and accepting ourselves is a must to understand our lives. Next is others. When we do something for ourselves how does it impact others? We must find joy in life but not at the sacrifice of others.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Opportunities: Do we take them or let them pass by?
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When we are faced with a personal growth opportunity, how do we react. Do we think we need help? If our issues are not a problem to ourselves are they issues to others? Is it possible we don't have all the answers? Who can you trust to talk to?Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Can you emulate some of these traits? They are willing to take the time and energy to be their best. They work hard, get up early, rarely complain, expect hard work, they study and ask questions, and they know lots of people. Listen now to learn more.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Reasons: What are the Reasons we do the things we do?
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Do our actions have roots in our families or origin? Do experiences dictate our future? We are stronger than our pasts.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
What would you do if you could do anything you wanted for a day or a week? Would you sleep all day or accomplish a task you want to get done. Would you enjoy life now?Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Stereotypes: Are we guilty of Stereotyping others?
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Do we stereotype people or things? Are we looking at people or things from an unchallenged negative view point that we accepted from the past as being true? Do we need to challenge those learned views? Are you passing negative stereotypes on to our children? Which stereotypes have you been categorized as? Listen to this fascinating discussion and l…
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Success: What should we give to others to achieve success?
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Giving others our passion to others and fire others up. When you give others our energy it can become contagious and we will feel it coming back to us. Give others our experience that can help them make their lives more meaningful.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Where did we learn to show caring? Have we improved our style from what we learned as a child? Have people hurt us with their lack of ability to show caring?Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Helping Yourself (PART 1): What can I learn from self and others?
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Don't bite off more than you can chew? When is too much too much? Slow down and enjoy some what what you have bitten off.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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PROBLEMS: Why Don’t They Go Away and Leave US Alone?
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Try a new approach, brain store new solutions, get advice and grow yourself. Doing the same thing that did not work last time will not make your problems go away.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Friends: What are some ways to be a better friend?
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Are you taking the steps to have friends and to be one. Friendship starts with liking ourselves, it continues with several steps including choosing your friends wisely, listening and reaching out. Learn more...Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Positives is this an extension of our selves to others?
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When we put positive actions into the world are we putting an extension of our selves out there for others? We all want to reach a goal, do a good deed, relaxing and enjoying life. How can we be the positive in our lives?Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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CHALLENGES: WHAT ARE SOME OF THE CHALLENGING SUGGESTIONS WE MAY NOT WANT TO HEAR?
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Challenge your preconceived actions, habits and even figures of speech. Do not assume because you believe something that it is true for others? What are the appropriate boundaries in love?Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Get the most happiness out of life. Take a picture a day of something that brings you happiness. Surround yourself with joyous people. Start conversations with power leads that spark positive conversation vs venting. Stop waiting for XYZ to happy before you can be happy. Focus on the now.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Memory is a significant part of our daily lives. We can influence what we remember in the future. We can re-remember the positive to help us have a productive future.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Self Confidence, do we have it, when we need it?
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There is self confidence in general and then there is self confidence in specific situations. What we learn about ourselves growing up greatly influences our views on our selves and our self confidence.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Where does it come from and where do we need to practice it. Respect is earned and not just given. The difficult lesson is that we must give respect to receive respect. Are we bias in who we respect?Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Some days we feel like we do and some days we don't. Some times you have to face diversity before you can know if you have it. Keep moving forward towards our goals.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Unhappy and Miserable, 8 steps to take to stay on this route.
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Follow these 8 principles to remain unhappy and continue to be miserable. Change these negative patterns to be happier and more content with life. Considering these lists could change your path.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Changing behaviors can help you lead a better and more content life. 1) Need to want to change and must involve intellect, body, emotions and even your spiritual motives. 2) Knowing what specifically needs to change, what is driving our anger or our obsessions. 3) Follow through with a doable plan to create a new habit. 4) Validate out successes by…
When we look at relationships closely we see that someone or something is influencing our emotions in one way or another. Find the good in every relationship you choose to participate in. Learn to tolerate others differences as well as your own. Make your own meaningful and rewarding relationships in life.…
Re-frame and manage disappointment and aversion. See setbacks as opportunities. See failure as an event not an identity. Be open to new information and be willing to change your mind. Create a habit to motivate yourself.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
To live a life that is less reactive it is necessary to put the Ego in it's place. View situations with clarity. It takes two to do this but it has to start somewhere. This podcast looks at the Spotlight Effect, Egocentric Behavior and Self Awareness.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Things to avoid and things to embrace to find the peace and contentment we all deserve. Focus on purpose. We all have something to offer the world. Try these tips to work towards a better life.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Past Present and Future. How has the past influenced you?
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How has your past influenced you? The past is there to learn from to help you get the most from the present. Do you use the present wisely? Is your present life preparing you for the future?Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Respect: is Respect Becoming More Difficult to Show to Others?
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We are the ones that individually decide who we will respect. Are we respecting more people or fewer people? Is our personal criteria more stringent or are there fewer people deserving of our respect? Respect is earned not just given, yet we need to give respect to receive respect. Respect does not necessarily require agreement.…
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Confidant: is a Confidant Good for Your Mental Health?
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What concerns can you talk out with your confident? Are they a sounding board or an adviser? Find potential solutions, relieve concerns and stress while building trust with a confidant. Confidentiality and trust are key.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Past Experiences. What did we learn from our parents?
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Do we repeat the past in the present? Why do we respond the way we do?Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
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Validation – How important is it to give and receive?
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Realistically, we all like the positive feelings of expressing validation. This validation includes those from our children, our spouse, our friends, our boss and our co-workers. Do you give validation to others? We should.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
Generally, we should use wishes to bring about a change for the "good" in ourselves or for others. Use wishes as a motivator.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
All of us realize that most people do not like to be told what to do. Yet, all of us must realize that in order to get alone in this world we need to comply with appropriate and fair leaders.Dr. Mike Mayer - Psychologist による
